Should I wish my child’s father Happy Father’s Day even though he didn’t tell me Happy Mother’s Day?

[Anonymous]

I had planned to tell him Happy Father’s Day but he didn’t mention anything to me on Mother’s Day. We’re not together but we’re on pretty good terms. He told me Happy Mother’s Day last year (or first year being parents) and vice versa on his day. On Mothers Day I sent pictures of my daughter having fun and he said “I appreciate you still sending pictures and videos of her” but nothing else. I was going to print off a picture for him and his daughter on Father’s Day but now I don’t know.

[mommymommymommy]

You don't need to be in contact with your baby daddy, nor does he need to be in contact with you. You need to move on

[Asker]

I’m in contact with him when it comes to our kid, what are you talking about? It has nothing to do with being moved on

[mommymommymommy]

You do not need to be in contact with him. The only thing he HAS to do, by law, if you choose to do so, is pay child support. Other than that, you do not NEED to be in contact with him

MOVE ON

[Asker]

We’ve both moved on but okay

[mommymommymommy]

Yeah

[Asker]

And there’s nothing wrong with being in contact regards to our kid and nothing more. We don’t speak about anything else and it’s occasionally when he messages or calls to check on her

[mommymommymommy]

Yes, but you're literally saying "should i wish him a happy fathers day", and you were hoping for a "happy mothers day"

GET OVER IT,

[Asker]

You act like I’m mad about it, I wasn’t expecting it at all and it did not hurt me. I was just wondering if it’ll still be fine to still wish him that that’s all. I don’t see anything wrong with a child’s parent wishing the other one that even if they’re not together anymore

[mommymommymommy]

YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE IN CONTACT WITH AN EX

[Asker]

Just because he’s my ex we don’t need to be in contact when it’s conversations about the needs and well being of our child? What sense does that make?

[mommymommymommy]

YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE IN CONTACT WITH YOUR EX

[Asker]

😂 okay

[MementoMori777]

No why would you

[Asker]

I thought about it to be nice

[MementoMori777]

I have realized being nice let's people step all over you

[Asker]

That is true, thanks for the response

[MementoMori777]

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