How do you make the most out of singleness?

[Justneedtokno]

[Leapfrog00]

Lately, I have been investing myself into my writing. I wrote 3 books part of a series so far, plus a few other ones. One thing I've learned from writing, the more you write, the smarter you become. With all the research you have to do, and your use of words, it builds your brain.

Maybe one day when I meet a nice girl, I can share my stories with her, and she can travel with me on this journey through the writing world. Being single though, I have more time to myself. When I was dating, I spend half my time with girls who always wanted drama.

I think sometimes your better off by yourself. I still feel like a loser sometimes, but I feel like I'm doing something with my time.

[Fireguy17]

Keep busy, get out and try new things, meet new people, hang out with friends.
I get on my motorcycle and go touring, rides, just have fun.
I have been single for long periods of time by choice, and always had fun.

[DizzyDesii]

I just do the same stuff I was doing before i was old enough to date. So think about whatever you did before you turned 12/13/14/15/16/17/18 and just do that. You have hobbies, shopping, exercising, watching tv, hanging with friends, working, etc. Just think, while single, you have more time on your hands. You can flirt around yet cut folks off when you get ready and enjoy being a bit selfish as you multitask and focus on the things that make you happy. Plus take some time to self-reflect on how you handled past relationships. Go level up! Get ya skills up. Enjoy

[Smiling_Baby21]

That's a time to discover yourself. When you know the things that put you off or turn you on, it becomes easy to navigate life as you're able to know where you want to be or not. In short you have self control because you know how to control your reactions and responses depending on the situation. And that's the most important power which people end up giving away to another person.

[Sixgunsound]

Upgrade things you are interested in as well as things that make you more valuable to a future partner, unless staying single is the goal. Nobody is 'the prize' simply for existing.

[kylee2437]

Invest into yourself. We live in a generation where relationships are wanted, not needed. The more you invest into yourself, the better life you are going to have.

[MemeSupreme]

when you're single there is so much less overthinking and drama. appreciate the peace while you can

[Justneedtokno]

I think I overthink overall there’s really no difference

[MemeSupreme]

but i don't get in fights with guys im with when single bc i am with no one

[Justneedtokno]

Whoa whoa no said everything about fighting

[MemeSupreme]

relationships involve drama and fighting lol

[FunkyMonkee]

I get to stay home and work on my various recording and writing projects.

[Likes2drive]

Do things now that you probably won’t be able to do when in a relationship, I bike and travel a lot, treat myself to good food at times, even go to a movie and not worry about being late because someone isn’t ready yet

[Jamie05rhs]

Find good role models and emulate them. Don't settle and pick people on your level just because you don't want to feel insecure. You need to intentionally choose people ABOVE your level. That is the only way to have growth.

[asphaltrhymes]

I save money and I spend it on myself and my family, friends 👍👍🤑🤑🤑😁

[Nikki1989]

Indulge in your passions and hobbies.

[Lauliss]

You do whatever you want, you don't change for someone. That's the best thing that happens when you're single.

[Buttajah]

The freedom to go to and from at choice.

The freedom from having to make up
excuses or lie to spare others feelings.

The freedom to be who you truly are,
without altering yourself to fit a mold
or being accepted.

[Anonymous]

I ascribe to the fight club philosophy.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/42cSdyzVcXQ

[Ms_Facesitter]

Do what you want to do. Being in a relationship isn't the only activity out there.

[TrillXHippy]

1) I just got used to it and 2) I stopped caring about being single

[shades777]

by doing what makes you happy, you don't anyones permission to enjoy your life

[Z1pTD]

I just appreciate the freedom of being able to hop up and do anything :)

[boggboss]

By doing what u want to do

[Gent207-2]

Two words: Magnet Fishing

[KatherineJ]

Have fun just being you.

[DextroShade]

Cats and wine, I guess.

[Grond21]

Prepare yourself to be a wife

[provokeesmokee]

Therapy.

[Alex8736]

well said

[msc545]

Learning.

[legalboxers]

I just deal