If things had worked out differently, what would your life be like now?

[Anonymous]

I’d be a mum (which is crazy to think about!)

I’d also be living in a different country. I wouldn’t have the career qualifications that I do now 🥺. I’d probably be investing a lot of my energy into my “family” (husband and baby).

I also probably wouldn’t be attracted to him anymore 🤣

Updates

10 mo

Guys I didn’t mean your ideal situation. I mean something happened in your life and it changed your entire circumstances.

Back then I wanted this but now there’s no way I’d be ok with any of that so I’m glad it didn’t work out! :)

[AmeerX]

I don't like to think about what ifs, I am just happy how things were except a few things. God has been kind to me despite difficult situations and tough times in my life.

If things worked out differently I would have been abroad living someplace else doing a 9/5 job may be as a doctor or something probably be beaten up with no friends.

Now I am glad where I am right now. I just wish my future children follow the same path God prescribed for me in worldly matters.

[MementoMori777]

id be wealthy and married most likely and id have 9 friends

[jennifer_bloom]

I’d be working as a psychologist and married to a dentist with two children and living in a home near my university and leading bible studies at church and doing volunteer work with homeless people in Toronto.

[Anonymous]

As in how would I want it to be or thankful it didn’t work out that way?

[Asker]

Thankful it didn’t work out that way

[Opinion Owner]

Oh , I probably would’ve ended up married to a control freak and living with in-laws , possibly resulting in a divorce. Either that or getting engaged and then the guy getting cold feet..

[Asker]

Damn we’d be in similar situations haha. Glad it worked out for us.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m curious , what happened if you don’t mind me asking

[Asker]

I was in a serious relationship and I was going to move country for him and eventually we planned to get married. This was a few years ago but then I found out he wasn’t right for me. I changed my life since and I’m glad how things worked out. This was a few years ago.

What about you?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh wow thankfully you escaped!

I was with someone who was unsure and kept giving me mixed signals. One day he’d talk about marriage the next he would be off so I just ditched him completely and now I’m happy.

Also thanks for MHO ☺️

[Asker]

That’s good!!! You’re welcome

[Danny_dan92]

I’d be married and have a kid or kids