How to start sugarcoating or grow a filter?

[MementoMori777]

cause i say everything i think and sometimes what i say sabotages things or hurts feelings so something is clearly missing when im telling the truth, i tried wotking on this and i think I've gotten slightly better but not fully so anyone got tips? 🤔

[MORPHEUS_12]

As someone who is like you, I say what I think. With that said, I do use discretion but for the most part I do not sugarcoat anything. If that person gets butt-hurt they need to grow a pair.

[belle_kai]

Word it better. You can say what you think but it's what you say and how you say it

[MementoMori777]

yep i gotta work on that i guess

[belle_kai]

Learning some psychology helps and just interaction etc. If you get really good you can go into sales! 😂

[MementoMori777]

i can't imagine myself as a psychologist, i feel like they would walk out worse than when they walked in 😁

[belle_kai]

I don't mean an actual psychologist but to win people over it helps when you learn about people and how their minds work and learning the art of what to say

[MementoMori777]

I've learned a bit but if i can't see what im saying wrong or what offends them then whats the point lol

[belle_kai]

Becoming more self aware is all in there too. Also reading

Here's one
www.amazon.co.uk/.../0091906814

Look past the title its very interesting to read

[MementoMori777]

they are charging me 10 euros to learn how to make friends, jeff besos really milking people out here no lie but thanks for the recommendation belle 😂🤣

[belle_kai]

OK well I tried lol

[MementoMori777]

sure did belle and i appreciate that 🤣💎

[JoyGirl]

Nah, I like you the way you are.

Kept it blunt. 👌🏾

[MementoMori777]

so keep hurting peoples feelings? bet 🙂

[JoyGirl]

No!
Keep it blunt, but watch how you say it. For instance, tone of voice…lol
You could also straight up ask the person if they want your honest opinion, before giving it.

[MementoMori777]

well ill try, the truth is the truth lol

and ima stay quiet on the othwr post, homie wanna shoot his shot from the looks of it and ima let him 😂

[JoyGirl]

I don’t think he is. 🤔

[MementoMori777]

respond and you'll see eventually he will try, just know ill be lurking in the shadows with some popcorn 😂🍿

[JoyGirl]

Wow! loool 😂

[leahzrc]

self awareness

[MementoMori777]

thanks for the effort leah 😂

[Anonymous]

Can you give an example of what you said?

[MementoMori777]

I don't know what rubs them off wrong or i wouldn't be adking this question, i wouldve just not said it 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Ohh lmao.. next time ask "did I say something wrong?" And then from there u can get a better understanding on how to frame your responses to them.

[MementoMori777]

well i have complications on text cause they ghost me so i dont think thats happening but i guess in person they can't run from me 😈

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao what the heck r u saying to them? I wanna talk to u now 🤣

[MementoMori777]

I don't know but they decide to just abandon my innocent little soul 😔😇

[Opinion Owner]

Das messed up

[MementoMori777]

lol.

[Anonymous]

Always think before you speak.