Do you think when we have to lie to someone, it is their mistake as well upto an extent… not in all cases ofcourse?

[Rohaan2020]

[boggboss]

Give a example of this

[Rohaan2020]

Like when we have to party with our frnds and we lie to our girlfriend that we’re going out with family or make some other excuse rather thn telling her the truth bcz u know she’d not allow u otherwise

[boggboss]

No thats completely on you if u decide to be with a partner that lays boundaries that u don't like but still decide to stay with her makes u the bad guy if u decide to break them if I want to go out with my friends or have a party I will tell my partner lol why am I out here lying like some child that can't be trusted

[Rohaan2020]

Ya so that’s what i an saying na… its her fault that i have to lie to her… and ok in this case i can leave her….
But sometimes children too lie bcz of the fear from their parent’s reaction to their mistake… if parents were supportive the children would never lie

[boggboss]

Yes in the case of a child lying out of fear then the parent has fucked up but if u are lying to prevent your girl being mad at somthing u know would upset her but u decide to do it because u don't care u are the one at fault

[boggboss]

If u want to be allowed to go to parties u need to talk to her about it or find a partner that trusts u being with her and lying about it makes u shit

[Rohaan2020]

Y am i at failt here… we can’t have our life if we’re in a relationship?

[Rohaan2020]

I’ll tell u the scenario…. My last girlfriend was like that… it was not about trust… she was just attention seeker bcz even when i used to be with my guy frns she’d call me again n again and ask me to talk to her… I couldn’t leave her for this bcz i loved her… but do u think this behaviour was justified?

[boggboss]

Sounds like u picked a shit partner and allowed her to cross boundaries because u loved her which don't justify her taking the piss again finding a partner that can respect your time is not impossible

[Rohaan2020]

Ya… u’re right

[Litoidiotalltalk]

No omg. Bipolar narcissistic mentally ill idiots like me do

[Reem12345reem]

i don't understand explain more

[Rohaan2020]

People mostly lie to those who won’t understand them or wouldn’t support them…. like children often lie to their parents when they know they’re too strict or people in relationships lie to their partners when their partners are too controlling

[mommymommymommy]

Fool me once...

[Rohaan2020]

Like when we have to party with our frnds and we lie to our girlfriend that we’re going out with family or make some other excuse rather thn telling her the truth bcz u know she’d not allow u otherwise

[Rohaan2020]

Sorry this reply was meant for the other person