I feel terrible that my life turned out the way it did do you think it's too late to change it?

[Anonymous]

Things happened and my life turned out the way it did through no fault of mine.

I don't know what to do now.

[James_Likes_PPL]

30-35 not but the light at the end of the tunnel is getting dimmer. I’d like to tell you the story of my aunt. She was a complete reck. Got pregnant in her early 20s. Married him out of obligation. Divorced cause he was an ass hole. That guy ended up in prison and she had to raise a child with no support whatsoever. Met another guy and married him. Cheated on him and completely ruined that relationship. Was your age with a teenager and a long list of exs and no future or career. Learned how to cook, learned how to make clothes. Found another man but this time did a complete 180 and changed her entire personality into a submissive housewife. They now live in a 5 million dollar mansion overlooking the ocean and have a large boat they take to go “swoardfish hunting”.

[Asker]

Whoa. The part where she ends up with a mansion was an unexpected twist.

My life is not that screwed up. It's just... I don't know. It's like it took one wrong turn and never came back on track.

[exitseven]

I can tell you from experience that it is not too late. I think it is even more common now than when I did it.
Figure out what you want.
Make a plan
Stick to the plan.

[Asker]

The figuring out what I want is the hardest part

[exitseven]

If it was easy , everyone would be doing it.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[NamerOfStars]

Not if you're still alive. You can't change the past, but you CAN change the future.

[Danny_dan92]

Make the changes