How do you react to verbal abuse from random people?

[Anonymous]

I am not very good at talking or verbal fighting
Especially when the abuser is a female.. I can't physically do anything either
Fighting was my career and random men are easy to deal with
But honestly I feel emasculated to just stand there and hear everything even though I know ignoring would be the best option

[Altheavas]

I think you need to face the disrespect immediately so it doesn’t repeat itself again. Don’t entertain it, usually keep your calm, when they all acting like zoo animals just see them as that. Stand behind a glace window/observatory and watch them misbehave. It’s never good to step in and start acting like a zoo animal too. You might get hurt.


Anyone, being mean and verbally abusive to another already tell you much about their level of intelligence. They have some unsolved anger issues, some trauma, some emotional damage that hasn’t been addressed, and a way they show that is by hurting, express it to another. They might even project their internal issues, while ignoring their own round. You just happen to be their victim while they rotting internally and mentally.
First of all it’s actually none of your problem, it’s their issues to solve not yours. Do not carry none of their emotional garbage they send at you personally.


That’s why I like watching my haters, laughter, and perspective will cure you. If you wanna be petty just entertain them a bit, act, like they expected you to while they going wild. 😜

[Asker]

That really helps! Thanks you

[Anonymous]

I pretty much ignore them.