Do you wish you were born the opposite sex?

[Vivaldi]

I wish I were born the opposite gender

I do

I don't

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2 mo

Opposite gender is the valuable gender.

[PetLover24]

Growing up I was what is called a "tomboy".

I wore boys clothes, played boys sports including hockey / ball hockey & football on mixed gender teams, learned how to hunt & track, chased frogs & snakes, played with boys toys (e. g. mechno sets, etc.) and more.

I had no interest in makeup - never used it. I had no interest in celebrities - still don't. I had no interest in pierced ears - never were. I had no interest in heels - never worn. I had my hair cut short (buzzed even), never wore any dresses, and whatever else.

Did I want to be a boy?

Nope. I'm entirely 100% hetersexual, not even once considered sex with another girl.

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The only thing that's changed is nowadays I have long hair & I wear dresses, not skimpy ones but to the ankle and fashionable blouses with long skirts.

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My point.

How many CHILDREN are been FORCED into these sex changes by IDIOT parents because it's a "fad" and doctors looking for expensive EASY surgeries... who are merely going through a phase.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Well said! 💯

[Cutegirl06]

You're my hero!

[WhyohWhy69]

I’d never even dream of doing that to a child. God knows what kinds of medical problems they will have later. Some doctors (many of them) only care about money. It’s awful.

[WhiteBoyChill]

@WhyohWhy69 The American medical industry as a whole exists solely for profit

[WhyohWhy69]

@WhiteBoyChill I know. A lot of them hide behind the church, too. Mediocre care but hey they have a brand new building that sits empty. That’s partly why so many people in the states want churches to loose their tax exempt status.

[devilish-cutie]

yes and no, Im not unhappy about being a female but in our society id probably be better as a man, given that im direct, brave and practical

[Vivaldi]

It sucks to be a man

[devilish-cutie]

Its not great to be a woman either

[JoePro_]

I said I do, but not as part of dysphoria or anything similar. I simply think it's easier to be female in ways where it's not easy being male, even if there are aspects of being female that are otherwise difficult or tedious to deal with. I think the pros outweigh the cons, generally speaking, and only in this day/age. Would I want to be a woman in 1700? Oh hell naw. But today, I think women have it pretty good. Now, that's not to denigrate any concerns modern females have with treatment or harassment in some arenas, or to deny that women have their own set of difficulties with living the life of a female. But I take Norah Vincent's life and death seriously. She lived a year and a half as a full on male and, even after transitioning back to female, ended up killing herself because of the trauma of the "male experience".

[WhyohWhy69]

They have a name for “men” like you.

[Cutegirl06]

@WhyohWhy69 They have a name for "women" like you too it's femnatzi I may be only 17 but I've seen how much better girls/women are treated vs a boy/men. It's women like you that give other women a bad name.

[_piotr]

Yes. Being men today is sad deplorable.

[Cutegirl06]

@_piotr it's not being a man that's deplorable, it's how they are treated by women that's the problem.

[monorprise]

How do you know you weren't already? Under many theories including faith and simulation, i is entirely possible that people have lived many lives. If your a man you could have been a woman in a past life and vice versa. Thus your current life could be one of your experiments.

Provided sex is even a thing wherever you are when you make the choice.

[PikaFurBoy]

Part me of knows when I get to heaven some day, I'll be a woman there.

[monorprise]

@PikaFurBoy The hypothesis was, if such was the case you would find that you had already been both with the memories and experiences of both. It kind of doesn't matter what you are there if anything at all.

[Sonorous]

After seeing the many privilege's the women in my family have that I don't. Yes.

[WhyohWhy69]

Always think the grass is greener on the other side. Society doesn’t need crybabies like you.

[Sonorous]

🤣🤣🤣

[PetLover24]

@Sonorous what privileges? The privilege of being sexualized, trafficked, raped, beaten to a pulp by husband or boyfriend

[Sonorous]

@PetLover24 mommy chill

[devilish-cutie]

I would also like to know what privileges?

[Sonorous]

@devilish-cutie nah cause u just goin bully me too 🤼‍♂️

[Cutegirl06]

@WhyohWhy69 Personally I think he has a good point. From what I've seen in school if a girl bullies a boy he gets in trouble for it!! And that's why I always stand up for boys if they get blamed for something a girl did to them!

[Cutegirl06]

I won't bully you

[devilish-cutie]

Lol asking for arguments is not bullying, if you say women have privlidges we wanna know which you think those are

[Sonorous]

nah cause I'm female op #1 rn Ima go so I can stay alive

[WhyohWhy69]

Serious, dude. Just because your life didn’t turn out the way you wanted doesn’t mean you throw a tantrum and become a crybaby. What makes you a real punk is that you try to take from those who are smaller than you. Nothing more than a spoiled little boy.

[Sonorous]

[WhyohWhy69]

@Cutegirl06 I don’t care what you think. He’s mad because his life didn’t turn out how he wanted. He’s arrogant and ungrateful. You know what decent people do? They work harder and count their blessings, even if they don’t have many. They don’t take from those smaller than they are and they don’t automatically think the grass is greener on the other side.

[Sonorous]

[JoePro_]

This thread of yours let me know who to block. It's an opinion piece. You don't have to take people's opinions confrontationally. The number of women responding here, saying they're happy being women because they recognize some of the benefits of being a woman, but the moment a man says "I think I'd be a woman because of certain benefits" all these femmies trying to internet brawl you because you dared have an opinion on some of the eases of being a woman. It's insane. I block social and political zealots, right and left. I ain't got time to argue with someone who've already determined they're right and you're wrong.

[WhyohWhy69]

@PetLover24 her blocked me, lol. That means I was right.

[Cutegirl06]

@WhyohWhy69 As a girl I am on the other side. It really doesn't matter if you care what I think it's my opinion. How do you know he's arrogant and ungrateful? Do you know him personally? Or is this just an opinion of a woman who believes she has certain privileges just because she's a woman?

[WhyohWhy69]

@Cutegirl06 again, I don’t care what you think. No hatred just fact. I used to be just like you. Then I grew up and noticed what game men like these punks play.

[WhyohWhy69]

Maybe consider being trans.

[WhyohWhy69]

@Cutegirl06 femnazis? Sweetheart, grow up. You sound like you’ve been listening to men who will do away with you by the time you’re 25. They say the same canned responses and are considered domestic terrorists. They target women, children and families with violence and have been known to kill people. I can spot these men a mile away. I don’t believe resorting to violence and I do not believe in their ideas of diminishing life. Don’t stand up for people who would likely blame you if you’re attacked or assaulted. Don’t stand up for lazy irrational people who would rather take innocent people down because they themselves are failures at life.

[Cutegirl06]

@WhyohWhy69 Let me tell you something! I have a wonderful boyfriend who was abused by his older sister and mother when he was a little boy. They abused him just because he was born a boy!! He never did anything to them! Now he PTSD and suffers nightmares too. His sister thought she was better than him because she was a girl. You sound just like her you think you are better than males well you're not!! My boyfriend treats me with total respect and I treat him with respect as well! I think you are so bitter you can't see reality. I've seen so many girls bullying boys and their mothers and teachers all pretend it never happened!! I don't care what you think either, I will always stand up for a boy when a girl or woman is bullying him!! You believe that you are better than males well you're not!!

[WhyohWhy69]

@Cutegirl06 I have a wonderful fiancé. Grow up, cupcake. Start sticking up for good people, not creepy cult men.

[Cutegirl06]

My boyfriend is not a cult

[WhyohWhy69]

@Cutegirl06 yep men can be abused, too. Maybe he’s not, but the guys you’re sticking up for on here are generally. Shame on you being okay with women being blamed and demonized by the punks you stand up for. Shame on you for thinking women are worthless by 25. Shame on you for being okay with women, children and families being harmed. Not cool pumpkin.

[Sonorous]

www.youtube.com/watch

[WhyohWhy69]

Oh also, cupcake- the bums you’re sticking up for would make fun of his abuse and tell him not to get help. How naive you are.

[Anonymous]

I see a lot of guys on this site saying they wish they could be a woman. But I say no thanks. I absolutely and utterly love being a man and wouldn't change it for anything! Take pleasure down from the pedestal you have it up on and think logically. Being a man is easy once you ignore peer pressure and societal expectations and simply live how you want to live and do what you want to do.

I know so many guys that got married due to being worried about being called gay... now they are just unhappy. Only do what you want to do! Make the choice and know and accept the consequences.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely!! What can I do with a dick besides piss and beat off?
If I was a girl, I'd have so much I could experiment with and all the great sex toys are made especially for me!! And they cost a LOT less than sex toys for guys!! You want a fake pussy? At least $100!! You want a fake dick? $10!!
Girls make WAY more money than guys, in porn, even though guys do most of the work! Girls make a shitload of money just for posing nude!! What do guys get? A hamburger and bus fare home!! Most people aren't the least bit interested in seeing guys naked, anyway! What's there to see? A DICK!! BIG FUCKING DEAL!!
How many album covers have you ever seen with a naked guy on it? Almost NONE!! Yet, I can whip out at least 40 or 50 that have at LEAST a naked tit on it, somewhere!!

[Unit1]

2 words
sex sells

[Opinion Owner]

@Unit1 It does! But, why only female-based sex?

[Unit1]

Being a good looking man is fairly uncommon - even if you have the right hairstyle and beard (if any) there are several factors at play.

On average men look like mish-mash golems and have nothing to wear but suits (kind of ugly and conformist-like) and a few casual things like plain monotonous t-shirt and jeans. Women have like over 30 ways to dress.

In fact its so much easier for boys to turn into ladyboys and be attractive at being one.

[Opinion Owner]

@Unit1 Exactly! I've been saying that since the `70's! Go to a big event like the academy awards show. You notice that ALL the men are dressing in tuxedos with stiff white shirts and a bow tie! Then look at all the broads in the place! Not a SINGLE ONE is wearing the same thing as anybody else!! All sorts of colours, designs, themes and styles!! WHY?

[Unit1]

The clothing industry is generally speaking garbage. Desperately so for boys and men.
I wonder why nobody has started their own brand and produce actually good looking or unique designs instead of imitating what's already in the market and it's infuriating me. I mean boys are spending tons of money on Fortnite and Apex Legends skins. You can bet your ass they'd spend it on real world skins to wear.

It's a business idea I'm "giving away" for free. I'd do it myself if I wasn't born inhumanely broke and in poverty.

[Unit1]

I myself have barely anything to wear. I go from market to market and even online (aliexpress) and find nothing of interest. There's barely anything I'd consider putting in the basket. And I'm in Germany. Germany should not have this problem and here we are.

I am thinking where could I travel just to buy a bunch of stylish clothes, maybe some underground market, a black market or anything.

[Opinion Owner]

@Unit1 I have no idea what skins are except a certain type of aliens talked about on the show, "Roswell".
As for making clothes, don't look at me, either! Thanks to my aunt, my ex-sisters and my ex-cousins, I'm nearly broke, too!!

[Unit1]

"skins" here means the way characters are shown with their clothing and stuff. Boys are spending money on video game content to have their playable characters wear stuff, that can look anywhere from stylish to completely ugly or silly with hats or cat tails or cat ears or glowing weapons or sharp shades.

[Opinion Owner]

@Unit1 Oh! Video game junk. I'm not into that stuff.

[sawno]

@Unit1 I'd add another 2 words... "To men". Romance sells to women, but not to men.
Its why you have porn focused on men, and romance novels focused on women.

[Unit1]

@sawno that is correct. And some of the most popular "romance novels" involve the top tier men only. Twilight, 50 shades of gray

[sawno]

@Unit1 I once actually brainstormed a romance thriller with a writer. I had this really cool plot narrative that had some unexpected turns, it was a kinky book but also focused on the dynamics and emotions of the protagonist and the other people inside it and generally had a darker theme. The writer absolutely loved it, but it had to be tweaked a bit because it just had to have a rich guy in it and be closer to a cliche rich guy romance novel. Otherwise it wouldn't sell. So the eventual idea she went for was way different from the elaborate setup I had, and was basically ruined by the cliche rich guy stuff. Women genuinely just desire that unrealistic wealth / status fantasy, if its not in it the book would never become a best seller.

[Unit1]

@sawno well that tells a lot. If it isn't a top tier man or a rich man, then it's considered a criminal minds episode and it's sexual assault. And then they say we don't have to be rich. Wishful thinking tells me its just a fantasy.

[sawno]

@Unit1 It is just a fantasy, I'm sure most men have had more hardcore fantasies than they'd ever actually do to a partner. Or watch porn of ridiculously beautiful girls out of their league without expecting a partner to look like that.

[Unit1]

@sawno With that said it seems only fair then. For some reason however there are way more beautiful girls than rich top tier men. Andrew Tate however said "most men can buy you lunch and a handbag, so who cares" in comparison with Bill Gates, who he described as "he has money but nothing else".

[Opinion Owner]

@Unit1 So, who's Andrew Tate?

[Unit1]

World champion kickboxer and influencer. His unfiltered reality messages gained him popularity rapidly. He went from broke to rich and relays things as a rich man as he would if he was broke.

[WhyohWhy69]

I think maybe you should stop and think about why.

[EmmaMary]

I'm extremely happy in being a woman, a wife and a mother... Thank you.

[Vivaldi]

I would too I were born female

[Vivaldi]

If I were born female

[Kingofkings1992]

@Vivaldi! You don’t have a vagina! Get over it.

[Vivaldi]

@Kingofkings1992

I would be very stuck up if I were born female.

[mstbooblover]

No, I don't wish to have been born the opposite gender. I'm happy with what nature gave me. Nevertheless, I would still have loved to be the opposite gender for some days, in order to know what it is like.

This being said, let's keep in mind that the neighbour's grass always seems greener...

[PikaFurBoy]

Yes! A million times yes! I want to be a girl just because being a guy sucks!

Girls have the better bodies, better voices, better clothes and even get treated better!

I know I was supposed to be a girl at birth but my body went the other way instead.

[PikaFurBoy]

Wanted to add more to my opinion, I've wanted to be a girl ever since age 5. I can tell you I still pray to God to this day to let me wake up as a girl. I still fantasize about being a girl.
I've even bought breast forms and wore in public and felt euphoria from them.

[Anonymous]

No, I am happy being a female.

If you are born with a penis you are not female. You are male.

Having your penis surgically removed will also not give you a real vagina. It would just give you a surgical hole that you would have to dilate for the rest of your life to stop it from closing. It’s also a sign of an unhealthy mind if anybody wishes to removed their healthy and functioning body parts

[Opinion Owner]

I was born female and I never have to dilate in my life

[WhiteBoyChill]

I can’t imagine lobbing off my penis. Like seriously why the f^ck do people do that? Its clinical insanity

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill Agreed buts it’s also true most trans women don’t get bottom surgery. Most trans women still have their penis and keep it. I think most probably don’t get it because they know it will not give them a real vagina. Also some side effects are you become infertile and I have heard orgasming is harder. Almost anyone likes an orgasm. Also it must be annoying dilating for the rest of your life. Sticking an object in between your legs. Post op trans women have to dilate for the rest of their life.

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill yes but the ones who want to remove their healthy body parts are likely not right in the head.

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill based on what I read online 80 percent of trans women still have their penis so that means about 20 percent have gotten their penis and testes removed. I imagine more would be getting it if it could give them a proper vagina but the surgery doesn’t give them one.
I imagine more would be getting the surgery if it were cheaper to.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Either way tho, ya still gotta feel bad for the guys stupid enough they go to have sex with a trans woman, and see a penis instead

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill All trans women are born with penises but some of them decide to get it surgically removed not all trans women have have penises but zero trans women have a real vagina.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Exactly. Still a lose-lose situation either way

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill With bottom surgery for trans women they remove their penis and testicles but they don’t remove their prostate. Post op trans women still have a prostate. They’re still male after the surgery to remove their penis.
There is no prostate in the female reproductive system.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’m aware

[Anonymous]

In this time era I hate to say it but yes. Although the idea of man doing me feels revolting. I also would never want to be a woman in a 3rd world country. However in a western country it would be much more advantageous.

Biologically life would get tougher (periods) but socially life would get easier.

[WhyohWhy69]

It’s always the same age bracket where men become ungrateful. Just shut up.

[Opinion Owner]

@WhyohWhy69 thanks for you very insightful response. So enlightening. And actually that’s a privilege YOU have as a woman. You get leeway. You can publicly treat men like that with no consequence. Which circles back to my original response.

[WhyohWhy69]

It’s true. You have no idea how very blessed you are. This coming from someone who doesn’t have a lot. Despite that, I know I’m very blessed. You’re arrogant and spoiled. Just because your life didn’t turn out the way you wanted doesn’t mean it gives you a pass to act like an ungrateful and spoiled child. Yeah sure pal, no consequences. Nobody has it worse than you. I’m not going to go into much detail and I don’t want any bs pity, you really have no place to say what you’re saying. Grateful, decent hardworking people don’t whine like you.

[Opinion Owner]

@WhyohWhy69 “ arrogant and spoiled.” So you are telling me not to make assumptions but it’s okay for you to make assumptions? Also you are doing a typical cheap shot argument called “poisoning the well”. It you try to discredit me as a person in order to discredit my POV. Men aren’t allowed to get away with that since we are expected to debate with logic. But you can get away with it. You also took my opinion like it was a personal insult so you felt justified personally insulting me. But you don’t even think you realize that.

So sadly you keep proving my point. You get leeway. That is YOUR privilege. If a man argued like that he would be considered pathetic because he isn’t fighting with logic. But do you not think all those negative emotions and hateful feelings are not running through his head? Of course they are but he’s expected to keep it under control. But it’s okay for you to talk to men like that. That’s your privilege.

And just for the record I never claimed “everything” is great about being a woman. But when men have 4x suicide rates compared to women you have to wonder what’s driving to the brink to begin with? Also a record 63% of men 18-30 are now single. Do you think they all wanted it to be that way?

[Cutegirl06]

@WhyohWhy69 Why so much hate towards males?

[WhyohWhy69]

@Cutegirl06 only these men. They are part of a domestic terrorism group who target women and children. They blame everyone but themselves. They all say the same canned phrases. Smarten up a little.

[Cutegirl06]

@WhyohWhy69 You have that backwards

[Princess2552]

Because I am happy being a woman and also I like having a vagina

[Light_beam]

Why do you like having a vagina?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Periods suck tho I would think.

[Princess2552]

@Light_beam because I am proud of my body and who I am

[Light_beam]

Oh i thought something else

[NathanDavis]

I was born the opposite sex...

I was supposed to be a girl

[devilish-cutie]

Why do you think that?

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Personally for me I'd want the ability to be able to shape-shift so I could be any sex and gender I want. Woman someday, man others, and then in between whenever. Sometimes I wish I was a guy but I'm fine with just having my birth body.

[monorprise]

@PBandJ_Nerd
If 'Gender' is not a synonym for 'Sex' how is it relevant to shapeshifting?

[Lliam]

Nope. I loved being male from the time I was old enough to go out and play. And I love being a man and doing manly things, including making love to women.

[WhiteBoyChill]

🔥🔥💯

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. Women have it too hard. Bleeding, bloating, can't get away with wearing the same outfit within a month without having someone comment, having to put up with every pervert hitting their inbox with offensive garbage. No thanks.

[ManOnFire]

Nope. I'm doing just fine. Plus I like being the one to penetrate the woman in whatever position I like😈 not interested in that the other way around.

[Puppystarfish23]

Definitely not i was born to be a woman and if I was a man I'd probably be as camp as Christmas. I love being a woman and I don't think I'd haven't as far as I have in life as a man

[WhiteBoyChill]

And men like the girls feminine too 👍

[AaronKrieger]

To some extent, but I enjoy being a man and the identity that comes with it too much. Also, I would rather not deal with the struggles women have, lmao.

[Katebfun]

No. I believe men have life a lot harder then women. Hence why we also live the longest. I can birth a baby, that's pretty cool.

[Aphrodite801]

Pick Me

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Nah, I'm fine being a male. People these days can't even answer the question "what is a woman?".

[sawno]

Everything else being the same (Other than the gender I am attracted to) it would have made things a LOT easier. But I am fine being who I am and wouldn't want to change, merely improve.

[PeachyPie93]

I don't know I kind of think I would still be a disappointment even as a guy and maybe a lot more because I was a guy. I think I would have been better looking though lol.