My crush added me back on snapchat, what do I say?

[Anonymous]

I'm 14 and a closeted trans girl. This person is a close friend of people in my friend group, we hang out with my friends there but we dont talk much because im too nervous to start conversations. They are a trans guy and like both guys and girls. I managed to build up the courage to add them on snapchat a few days ago and within a day they added me back. I want to start talking to them but i dont know what to say. I also think they act quiet weird around me because when i started hanging out with their friends the first few times they decided to leave the group early to go off by themselves and since they added me back i haven't seen them in school. I don't know what signs or shit are just thought id add that. if anyone knows what to do PLEASE reply to this

[RoseySarah]

O congrats love young love! Well maybe try going deeper with them. Talk about things that matter to you!

How your both trans and happy to be friends and get to know each other more and deeper.

My besty in highschool was like this always needing help never knowing what to say to Thier crush. Loved helping them out!

Find something they like and like it also. Don't go to hard on it just hey I like it and know about it.

Get a streak going even if it's just a silly selfie or cute picture!

[Asker]

i feel like saying "hey" will just be too obvious like im so bad at talking to people 😭

[RoseySarah]

Hm something more! Sure they get hey every day. Give a little something more!

At least a sentence

[Asker]

i think i said in the post about the fact neither of us ever talk to eachother like i feel like we have said 2 things to eachother and saying anything would be weird i dont even know why they added me back

also i would mention us being trans but im still not out to anyone

[RoseySarah]

Wanna message me to talk more?
Would like to help and I know this is a touchy thing.

[Asker]

okay!

[Asker]

i need more xp 😭😭

[RoseySarah]

Follow me

[Asker]

i already am

[RoseySarah]

What is your name then?

[Asker]

—eryn—

[laly520]

u r still too young so be careful

u can text him if u like n ask how he is

but overall focus on school

[Asker]

😭😭😭

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Talk to them but not on Snapchat. Text them through normal means. It’s safer for you in the long run and will help you remember what was said. I’m trans myself and find that there are too many catfish guys and people out there who want to take advantage of me. So protect yourself until you know for sure what someone’s intentions are and if they are true feelings. 😊
PM me if you would like to talk more.

[Asker]

snapchats the only way i can text them

[Avicenna]

You might not get a serious convo on Snapchat

[Asker]

i just want any conversation tbh

[ChicoFromThe305]

leap of faith?

[riverrat3]

Be friendly, smile

[Anonymous]

Nothing