What fucked you up back in the day?

[Anonymous]

[molonski2]

What fcked me up? You mean.. like Set me back? Back in my day..

Few things , getting divorced with 2 young children was not good , smashing a brand new company car ( into a pole ) in a car park was not good..

Getting my young girl friend pregnant with just one brief sexual act , when she was adamant that no abortion ( thank god now ) ..

These things did not seem positive at all at the time.. hahahahaha

[electromagnetic]

I was told not to use the computer once cause my dad was reading an article. He walked away for a bit and I used the computer.

Saw pictures of worms, many worms, lots of faqqing worms leaving all holes from a child’s body.
To this day, worms are my biggest fear. I do go out when it rain, I don’t drink Un bottled water from many countries, I do not partake in looking, touching or even breathing near worms.

[jennifer_bloom]

I had multiple toxic bullies as a child and I’m more normal than a pancake on Sunday morning. I had people say I lied about what happened to me cause nobody could go through what I did and be so happy today and I had other people ask me why I’m so normal when all these terrible things happened to me. My response is, I’m normal because I have access to a bible.

[Unit1]

Being born in a toxic family.

And then my parents decided to move from Germany into a shithole country from which people are massively fleeing from when i was just in 8. th grade.

I got chronically sick, depressed, starved and became strongly self-reliant and a loner.

I escaped it all by the time i was 27 years old. All by myself. I have no family.

[molonski2]

Wholly sht , no thought for their son? How did you get back to Germany?

[Unit1]

@molonski2 we can talk about it.
But in short i have sacrificed most aspects of my life and all my youth for low paying jobs, getting a useless degree in IT and i found an employer with a job offer willing to give me a hand in relocating me back to Germany. I still owe it to him and i wish i could do that. Maybe with some major profits in a year or so. His business is struggling.

[molonski2]

Wow , well done bro on getting back.

[Unit1]

@molonski2 yeah thanks. Imagine being born in a privileged country, losing it all because of my parents idiotic actions and then sacrificing everything of me just to get it back. Its Mind bending!

[molonski2]

Do you ever see them now? Or make contact at all? 😉

[Unit1]

@molonski2 zero contact. They don't know where i am. Its better that way.

[Asker]

@unit1
I have a similar story like that. I wouldn't lose contact with them though. They are my family after all not stranger people.

[Unit1]

My bridges and youth have been burned. I miss the latter so much.

[Nikki1989]

My only hiccup in my life was my parents, but I got past all of that.

[LaurenM1997]

When my ex left me and I starved myself and didn’t move out of my bedroom (unless needed to go to the bathroom) but yeah that fucked up my mental health for a while this was back in 2019 and I’m doing pretty well now

[exitseven]

Failing an eyetest to get into the Air Force.

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 2 months walking me home from school one day. Pushed me over in an alley way and assaulted me. Left me there and I had to collect myself before walking the rest of the way home alone. I was only 14.

[Metalbarbie]

Wow.. I'm sorry to hear that 😞

[molonski2]

So Sorry , wholly sht what an arsehole at 14 !

[laly520]

past is in the past

[strateguy632]

traumas