Do you treat others like you treat yourself?

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Or do you treat them better or worse than yourself. I put others above myself. I give 100% to others and not to myself.

handsomelad70 · Accepted Answer

I try to, but unfortunately, sometimes come up short.(Yesterday, while shopping, I was about $3.50 short of my purchase price. An older man, with his wife, told the cashier to ring through my purchase, for which they gave me $10 to more than cover it. This sort of kindness restores faith in the decency of a good many fok, necessay today when indecency seems normal.)

TheSpaceGnome · Accepted Answer

Not all people want to be treated the same way, so its not better or worse, just different.

I do put myself first though, despite how frequently I go out of my way to help people, I always make sure its not something that requires unreversable sacrifice on my part.

Alexandra____ · Accepted Answer

Before now i use to be a strong people pleaser , i always try to make people better even at the detriment of myself now i treat myself way better than I treat anyone feels really good 😌

douride2 · Accepted Answer

I treat others the same way I would like to be treated. That is till or unless they give me a reason not to.

ClaircognizantEmpath · Answer

I wish and i am working on it, that i could treat myself with the same open minded compassion i naturally have for others... i used to believe that i suffered, had to suffer for my given gift from the universe. to feel and empathetically connect with others and have an openess not of my own was not intended for me... im in the process of working on that because i should love myself with the same energy...

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I try hard to treat them better, as they deserve... but sometimes I get emotional and I should just walk away...

relax24 · Answer

So you see, this is a gray area because treating others like you treat yourself never works out. You are nice. They treat you like sh*t. then you wake up on day saying why should i always receive it. but never dish it back. these people don't deserve to get away with treating me like sh all the time.

LaurenM1997 · Answer

I treat others the way they treat me but I always go by the rule treat others the way you want to be treated

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I usually always treat others better unless they treat me wrong then I will go in on them😏

bobalife · Answer

I treat others like how I want to be treated and don’t expect anything in return because I think it’s important to stay humble, intentional, and kind.

Cheapskate · Answer

I am afraid of conflict and of being alone, so I go along with what others want, even when I don't want it myself.

lightbulb27 · Answer

It depends on my ability to respond at that time. I try to do so, or try to treat better, but sometimes fail.

At3mis24 · Answer

I treat others respectfully but not myself, I say often I don't deserve to be loved...

NathanDavis · Answer

I always treat people better or the same, by default...

Yoursweetgirl · Answer

I'm learning to treat myself better than others.  I always considered myself selfish though because others have always told me so. Then I went into therapy and it really helped.

Tomisworthless · Answer

Everyone treats me poorly and in turn I've been taught to do the same to myself however I tend to treat others with kindness and respect possibly out of cowardice since I treat my family horribly

DrPepper12 · Answer

Just my nature. Stoicism, ethical humanism n Buddhism kinda reinforce that for me / always appealed to me. I think the answer is congenital.

McKellar · Answer

I always treat other people the same way I want to be treated back, but in that realistic sense, not everyone will do that considering they were never nurtured right.

whistlingwh0res · Answer

I treated others better but now I am treating myself better and it gives me a control.

Anonymous · Answer

I used to. Now I only do it for immigrants, put them first. Americans just fuck you over in every imaginable way if you're like that. 💯 percent of the time.

Pinay_ako · Answer

I treat people how they treat me.

Dinklex3 · Answer

I treat them the way I want to be treated.

Ohayosekai · Answer

I treat bad people bad and good people good. That is the only reasonable thing to do. And yes, i can tell who is good or bad. I may pretend to be good to evil people sometimes, but i am not.

Dongie · Answer

I'd been killed a long time ago if I treated others as bad as I've put on meself.

Jay-_- · Answer

If I'm being honest sometimes better than myself

DagonbroughtMehere · Answer

No, I keep people at distance and hold Myself to a set of standards.

JayBones2469 · Answer

Do I jerk others off 2 times a day? Fuck no, I only jerk them off once a day

dustybiker2 · Answer

Unless disrespected. Of course.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, I don't make other people drink until they throw up and pass out, every single day

SolitarySolace · Answer

I treat others the way they treat me

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