Do you judge too quickly?

[scott04sa22]

[Chazmatazz269]

No, that’s not possible. Our ability to assess potential threats, risks and challenges is near instantaneous as a matter of evolutionary biology. People whose assessment time was slower died out for obvious reasons.
I suppose you’re actually asking how soon i can and will apply my judgments to my behavior. Also immediately. I don’t need anyone so badly that i’m willing to risk my life or livelihood to be “open minded” for the sake of a stranger’s feelings. If you want access to me, you need to prove that you’re not a threat to me in any way; not vice versa.
Furthermore, i have a strong commitment to honesty. If you say or do something that i find objectionable, i’ll let you know. If you continue, i’ll cut you out of my life. Withholding your own thoughts and feelings, particularly in favor of someone else’s, is dysfunctionally masochistic. I have too much self respect to ever do that to myself again.

[DrPepper12]

No. Being a teacher disabused me of that flaw. people surprise you.

[Badgirlnatalia]

I tend to yes