Does the ''we (women) support other women'' have a limit too?

[Anonymous]

For instance if it reaches that point that it's jeopardizing the rest of us and she's really (not 50% but totally at 100% wrong) in the wrong, I can't support that. My former best friend was trying to use someone for money and even telling me in details about her plans of taking over his house and laughing about it. As harsh as this might sound, no I didn't support her. Sadly I exposed her myself and it marked the end of our friendship. To her, I had betrayed her. She referred me as a traitor of my own gender. I just didn't want to be complicit to that. No one deserves to get used, to get exploited.

Lets say I had gone along with it and stay silent or support her and laughed with her. That would be ruining my chance of finding a serious man, the bad news gets spread, that man then tells other men bad things about us and then it makes it harder for the rest of us. Bad news gets spread faster than good news.

I've been ingrained with the ''women support each other'' for too long but is there a limit too? I can't support something that's bad either.

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I would gladly support another woman that's really struggling in life or is in a real abusive relationship. But supporting what my ex friend has plan on doing? That's going too far.

[ManInChains]

You did the right thing by exposing her. We need more women like you out there to stop women like her. It’s toxic femininity for a woman to say that You’re a traitor to your own gender by preventing her from taking advantage of a man when said man wouldn’t have been able to do anything about it himself.

[LazerBean]

I never support someone just because of their gender.

[Asker]

yeah wrong is wrong. It's sad when people support their gender on bad things just because it's their gender. It should be supporting whoever is right, regardless of gender.

[Anonymous]

Lol jealous much I see

[Asker]

I'm not jealous and I was dating someone else at the time. I never wanted her former man. I just didn't want to be part of something wrong.

[Opinion Owner]

Asking them to stop and sabotaging are 2 different things. U really are a jealous bitch. Rithika slut ik it’s u

[Asker]

I did asked her to stop twice, even had a long conversation about how wrong that is. It didn't work. She was still going to proceed with her plan on destroying someone's life, take over someone's house.

[Asker]

The fact that you would be ok with it... is really sad. That makes it harder for the rest of us.

[Opinion Owner]

Rithika slut