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It's really complicated to explain about his behaviour. He always pokes at me and thinks I'm upset when I'm really not. Just last night we were talking over text and the conversation was nice but it was long so I dozed off bit while saying goodbye/goodnight and he thought I was out off by him when I was not at all. So the next day came to chat over text and he said he was just busy and couldn't talk and said not to mind.
But the fact was that I did mind him a lot for not talking to me and I felt like I was being disrespected. So I blocked him over WhatsApp and he text me over messanger asking me what happened, but I feel like talking isn't gonna help cause I feel he is just a very ignorant person.
What should I do?
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Nothing; you blocked him for a reason. If you now unblock him and start contacting him, you credibility goes down the drain. You don't want that to happen.
I had conflict and drama; if it doesn't stop, I will go quiet, block someone and move on.
Some people say it is childish... Maybe so, but my peace of mind is more important. The last thing I need is someone following me around and being a completely prat... So to prevent that, I block that person; and any other account that person may have or makes after that.
(My dad is like that... He has made dozens of Facebook and email accounts to harass 3 of his 4 sons, me included, who walk away from him)
I HATE conflict and drama; if it doesn't stop...*
sigh...
So you proved to him why space was needed in need so he can move along from this situation. When a situation ends up like this, y'all both need to communicate , reassure and listen to where the both of you are coming from.
He doesn't respect my space and thinks I put him second in everything which is true.
Not true *
@asker what does your space entail?
I take care of old parents and study and having a job at the end of the day I like to read my book or watch some TV but he wants my time and I give it to him but he is never satisfied with anything I do for him
@asker I think it’s obvious you like your independence, which is not an issue however I am quite similar to this guy, and we just need reassurance plus a partner that isn’t willing to give up on us. By giving up on him, you still have proven why he’s of reason to feel how he feels. And I think the bottom line is, is there’s lack of communication on both ends. Blocking someone with no explanation is very unkind, regardless of how you are feeling.
Look I'm tired as hell at the end of the day and him bitching at me that I neglect him pisses me off cause I have a shit load of things on my tray.
You mentioned reading books and stuff, how’s that more important than just normal stuff? Like I said I get the independence is important but you very much need to be more honest to him about how much independence you prefer, and that your need for independence has nothing against him, it’s just who you are and if he wants to date you, he’s going to have to accept that sometimes you just don’t want to hang, but also there needs to be a compromise. You aren’t giving much detail in regards to this topic so it’s very hard to analyze who’s being reasonable and such, however this dynamic is from lack of communication and most likely that not acting who you actually are like until you got comfortable.
I'm not about independence, I just have a lot of responsibilities to deal with and he doesn't see that
@asker why not allow him to help you through those responsibilities? That’s what relationships are all about
He doesn't help he just complains.
Hmmm then I don’t know, I’m not really sure how to help. I think best thing to do is really analyze this situation and come up with a solution that best fits how you think this should be handled. Only you really know what’s going on here, so it’s nearly impossible for anyone else to help out with this situation.
Try talking to him. Almost always better than just blocking them. It does sound like there’s a lot of miscommunication between you guys.