Will I be alone forever?

[LittleOreoGirl]

Im 17 and nobody has showed genuine interest in me before. Nobody has asked me out, nobody has liked me in that way. I dont wanna be alone forever.

[Anonymous]

Unless your very unattractive or extremely mean, being alone is a personal choice for you. Like, let's say you're a 5/10 in looks. You can walk up to a random guy that's a 4/10, say "let's hangout sometime" and he will 100% go along with it. Hell, you've probably had guys that you found unattractive already try to pick up on you, but you didn't even give them any consideration.

[LittleOreoGirl]

I have a wide face so maybe thats why they find me ugly

[Opinion Owner]

Some guys might, but you can always just go after less attractive guys. You're basically deriving your self worth from the opinions of the most attractive guys, who aren't finding you attractive. That's not fair to yourself. Give those ugly dudes a chance. They treat girls better than guys like me do.

[LittleOreoGirl]

Nobody has liked me before. thats the issue

[Opinion Owner]

Then give attention to less attractive guys and you'll find one that likes you. I promise you.

[LittleOreoGirl]

I dont even give much attention to everyone

[Opinion Owner]

Then you have to live with the consequences of your choices. So you decide: "do I change and get attention from guys, or do I stay the same and not get attention." It's up to you though.

[shortster]

At 17, that isn't something I would worry about. I think 24 is when you should start worrying about it if it continues to that point. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Of course not girlie. I enjoyed my teens and started dating at 20, and it was the best decision to wait. It felt more special choosing than rushing.

[LittleOreoGirl]

I dont like dressing popular/sexy. I like hyperfeminine princessy dresses. I can still find someone right?

[Agape93]

You're a child, you got time re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Nikki1989]

Your life is only just starting. Chill!

[NamerOfStars]

Then show interest in THEM. Get up, mountain, and go to Mohammed.

[TallAnon]

Most likely not, what effort have you put in to make yourself appeal to others?

[LittleOreoGirl]

I make sure Im clean, take care of my skin and Im nice to people. I wanna get my teeth straightened but never had the time. And I wanna do makeup but no time. I wanna dress nice but not sexy. I hate dressing sexy. I wanna dress pretty princess happy doll vibes but I dont have pieces like that in my wardrobe.

[TallAnon]

Looking good is only a small part of attraction, don't forget the rest 😊

[LiamJHayden]

You are too young to be worrying about that.

[Benlovegs]

You are young ! Be patient and things will work out. Have an open mind

[Anonymous]

Probably as the elites are set to ban relationships re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[bowenw]

You will be fine. It takes time.

[Benedict234]

No worries, it will happen :)

[jahaims]

You are still a child

[BLP11520]

Be patient ❤️