Men what are your thoughts on what she expects from a man?

[CarolinaGirl5]

[BCRanger10]

My main thought is that she's trolling.

If on the off chance that she is not though...

#1 is reasonable... but that also depends on what these bills are. Rent or mortgage, electricity, internet, water, groceries, and so forth? Yes. It's a man's proper place to take care of his family. Enormous credit card debt from shopping sprees? You're on your own there, sweetheart.

Items 2 and 3 are a joint venture, but primarily the wife's role.

As for the rest? Stock up on cats and wine, lady.

[Lliam]

I think this is a joke. She can't be serious.
If she is serious, she's a ghetto whore on crack who no man in his right mind would touch with a ten foot pole.

I think women want to be loved, adored, respected, admired and appreciated. They want to feel safe and secure. They want a man they can trust. And most want mind blowing sex.
Of course, it's a two way street.

[MemeSupreme]

bro idc lol it'd be her relationship and not mine

only ones i agree with are these
3. we both should cook & clean

9. we should be faithful to each other no matter we do. like if i cheated on him then then he should stay faithful until he breakups with me for cheating lol not for me but for him bc principles

[MicahRaine]

^yeah

[Gold618]

I really do hope she's not serious. Then again, I'm constantly surprised by the levels of entitlement and narcissism displayed by so many.

[OlderAndWiser]

She's not really looking for a partner; she wants a submissive slave.

One question for her: "What makes you worth all of that effort?"

[Apple1996]

Maybe like 1,3,7, and 10 are reasonable. The rest are insane to ask for

[NYCQuestions1976]

I agree that number 3 is reasonable if she's working full-time. Running a household is most definitely work, but someone in the relationship needs to be making money to pay the bills.

[Apple1996]

@NYCQuestions1976 everyone should cook and clean regardless if they work or not. Those are just basic life skills

[NYCQuestions1976]

Agreed. That's why I stated that running a household, especially one that features kids and pets, is full-time work itself. Then you need at least one full-time income from at least one person in the house to pay bills. The way her list reads/comes across like she just wants to live her life as an irresponsible non-working freeloader, while the "man" (sucker) pays for and does literally everything. Especially the "pay all the bills" and "caring for her kids" part.

[Gold618]

Number one is not reasonable. The bills should be shared 50/50.

[Apple1996]

@Gold618 I wouldn't have childern with a man who didn't provide for me. Pregnancy, birth, breastfeeding, rasing the kids is worth more than any amount of money

[Apple1996]

@Gold618 the only way I'd ever do 50/50 is if a man could do 50/50 on a pregnancy. Which is obviously impossible

[NYCQuestions1976]

@Gold618 @Apple1996 If a woman in a relationship wanted to have kids and work, I wouldn't tell her no. Some women enjoy doing both. To each their own. 👍

[Apple1996]

@NYCQuestions1976 that is also fine but then they are paying someone to watch their kids. Childcare prices are insane so I personally wouldn't especially having 5 kids

[NYCQuestions1976]

That's also true, and you can't get back those young age years. Before you know it, they're suddenly teenagers in high school.

[Zack-Bann]

She’s playing on the femdom dynamic.
Believes it or not some men are into that
They are called: pay pigs. Among other names


Clearly the list absolutely ridiculous in a traditional relationship context

[ohsheeT]

Too many guys probably won't go for that including myself but
For a moment there I thought about it and I said why not as long as I get to do the same thing that list says then there shouldn't be a problem right you can actually almost be fun

[Gold618]

She wants to be able to cheat with whomever she wants, and whenever she wants to, but demands her "partner" (slave) be faithful and loyal. That doesn't sound like "fun" to me.

[ohsheeT]

Oh that's what I was saying I mean it sounds hot to me I would I would go for it I'd try it LOL if she got to do it I get to do it

[Gwendoline]

I'm sure she can find that guy but then she wouldn't want him, too spineless. As a woman there's nothing better than being with a real man.

[NathanDavis]

I just don't bother with online fake nonsense

[Joshydavid25]

Either most of this list is a troll, or something is mentally not all there for her. I would hope no man tries to give in to this just because she looks pretty good..

[genericname85]

my thoughts are: jeez i wonder what it is she brings to the table that makes it fair to ask for all this. like even on that list are really hard sells like "let me chat in peace"... and then "marry me"? wtf is this?

[Unit1]

I stopped at point 1 already. This is a Gold digger. Ew, yuck!

[CarolinaGirl5]

🤣🤣

[overlord337645]

she can go take her fantasy elsewhere to some guy crazy enough to go for that

[Danny_dan92]

Good luck to her. Especially with achieving a healthy and prosperous relationship

[travelguy01]

She’s been listening to that *sprinkle sprinkle* idiot too much.

She wants her @$$ hhhhhhwhooped. At least that’s what she needs. Preferably by her momma and not some dood.

[NYCQuestions1976]

She's a narcissistic sociopath, and probably just a few steps away from being a full-blown psychopath.

[CarolinaGirl5]

Exactly

[NYCQuestions1976]

This is why I tread lightly ever since I started dating again. 😂

[CarolinaGirl5]

😆😆🤣 I mean these days men really have to walk on egg shells

[NYCQuestions1976]

@carolinagirl5 That's the truth, unfortunately. Then at the same time, women wonder where "real men" are, and why men have stopped asking out/pursuing women.

[AviatorTom]

She's gonna be single, and alone, for a long time.

[rosemilk]

this woman will be single for the rest of her life 🤣

[Yannae]

Hope she likes her status, cause she is going to stay there for a loooong time

[HighValue]

The majority of American women want 8 of those. That is why relationships are ruined here.

[Likes2drive]

I expect she will be single for ever, she’s looking for a rich slave

[lorenzomichael]

Well in bed, I’m a freak so she won’t be disappointed there I can assure you. as far as everything else, did I mention I was a freaking in bed?

[kiktimbu]

She's just looking for social media attention

[Anonymous]

She going to be a single mom with that attitude. She makes black women look bad and ghetto.

[CarolinaGirl5]

This is how 97% of black women are yet they have nothing to offer

[Opinion Owner]

I’m black not all black women like this. The black women your describing are the hood rats and the ghetto ones.

[CarolinaGirl5]

I didn't say all I said 97% think like this

[Opinion Owner]

97% that’s an big percentage ☹️

[CarolinaGirl5]

It is sad but I feel it has a lot to do with the lack of family structure in the black community. I don't say this to be harsh but a lot come from single parent homes to where they do not learn the healthy dynamics of a relationship. My friend who is Asian has a husband who is black. She has strong family village but her black husband doesn't and seems to lack an understanding of how to maintain a family

[Opinion Owner]

Very sad😞

[Amur8711]

Seems like she is a hoe that's thinks she is a princess.

[RedInnocent69]

Well, that’s not happening. Would like to exchange and negotiate lists 😂

[dragoblack]

She doesn't want to relationship, she wants a nanny she can treat like crap

[llorando]

Good luck being single, all the dumb rich men are already taken 🤣

[Garud]

I don't waste my thoughts on such women

[DJB72]

Tell me you're a ho without saying it...

[Ms_Facesitter]

I hope she is trolling.

[Raaj4you]

Hahaha 🤣😂 No man will marry her.

[Anonymous]

If I could I'd sent her to the 18th century

[CarolinaGirl5]

🤣🤣🤣

[KrakenAttackin]

What has happened to modern women?

[CarolinaGirl5]

What do you mean like the " I don't need a man type women "? 🤣 my gender is clearly bipolar and confused. One minute they're miss independent the next I need a man

[KrakenAttackin]

The type of woman in your post seem to be more and more common. The "Pay my bills" type of female is really delusional.

[CarolinaGirl5]

This is why I don't do many friendships with other women. Something is mentally wrong with them

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Amazing standards for Mars. 👌

[CarolinaGirl5]

🤣🤣🤣

[Hellraiser1984]

She's going to be alone a long time.

[Sabretooth]

letting her cheat in peace is doable...

[PATR6104]

I think she's being a bit ridiculous

[Rohaan2020]

Better she stay single😅

[MechanicMan1972]

Joke. It's absolutely undebatable.

[Joshua_H_1010011001]

Clown.

[Slim57]

Clocked out on any woman with demands

[Anonymous]

There's no way that's real.

[RingOfFire]

Stupid

[Adel50]

A joke.

[CubaPirate]

Dream on