Why do y'all do that? Lol 🤣. y'all are so weird. You will complain about a man being broke, a bad boy, a liar, a cheater yet you knew this when you met him and still chose to spread your legs then complain "my baby daddy ain't shit". Where's the accountability?
When will women admit they're the problem? Why am I seeing post of women angry with all men due to their poor mate selection. Whose fault is that?
It’s not all women I mean… You’re not like that are you? It really comes down to narcissists and trust me there is men like this out there too it comes in both sexes both good as well as evil.
A lot of these women have the same if not worse personality traits but also feel entitled to a man whose the opposite of what she is. When her options are limited to one extreme of losers, creeps, weirdos, and the other players, fuck boys, etc. It’s her own damn fault that she’s chased away and decent man.
They are the same women who cry about how they are allowed to have standards (which you are) but at the same time feeling entitled to another person herself. Men are also allowed to have standards most of the type of men these women want aren’t the type who want them back.
Most women who say these things about men are broke not just because of their job but because they are absolutely horrible with finances, they are a proud bad bitch, compulsive liars, notorious cheaters, spread their legs for men as irresponsible as they are but act like it doesn’t make two to make a baby, when it’s her who chooses these people and does these things. And repulses any decent dude
Women don’t want to take accountability its easier for them to say men and guys deserve to be kicked in the balls, men and guys deserve to die alone, men and guys are stupid, boys should be changed into girls, all this nonsense this is femcel, feminist extremist behaviour and they think it’s justified and that behaviour is due to poor parenting of not having a good father to teach her right from wrong, bad influence of friends and especially living in western culture where it’s normalized. That’s why a lot of guys are saying f-it, women and girls aren’t worth the trouble because peace of mind is more important then to be with someone who will belittle you, degrade you, be crazy in her mind with her bipolar ways, that’s not a relationship that’s not love that’s a death sentence. When world war 3 starts I want to see all those radical femcels who talk about breaking balls and Ms. Independent and leave her comfort zone to risk her life and very well likely doesn’t return home…the tune changes real fast of “I want to be a stay at home house mom with kids”.
No that cheater, liar or absent father isn’t at fault. You all are obsessed with asking woman where's your accountability, why did you marry an abusive guy. What if she had married a decent guy and after marriage he started to show his true colors? What if he was loyal in the beginning and just lost interest in you after you gave birth due to weight gain? It's a peak level victim blaming where she got cheated on. And loyalty Isn't a lifetime specialty, you can get distracted at any point of your relationship. Some People are manipulative enough to convince you. The amount of effort a man gives to get a girl doesn’t last long. Whoever has cheated on gets the blame - both man and woman
Haha girl you’ve never met that type of man probably. You can never know how a manipulative narcissist thinks like. I'll not say every man is horrible, but even men will agree that some of them are actually horrible. It's human beings instinct behaviour to find to better one. once he gets omeone better than you, he'll leave.
Where's the logic? People change their behaviour with time and situation. It needs to be clear that abuser both physical and emotional are the one who should be blamed. Why blaming the victim (can be man or woman) who already went through so much?
I'm not a victim but someone is. So the red flag beholders aren’t at fault but the woman who choose is? If your man hits you, It's not his fault but yours cause you chose to be with him? STOP this pick me behaviour. guys don't care anyways
@hippio if having intellect makes me a pick me then I guess I'm that cause you're not very bright. You're not a victim, grow up and make better decisions
@hippio Really? You sure about that? "and loyalty isn't a lifetime specialty, you can get distracted at any point in your relationship." By distracted you mean cheat, correct? If not what do you mean?
I think the scope of the question is getting lost here. It's not who is at fault. It's assuming the woman has most of the responsibility for whatever negative incident has occurred.. At that point they should have accountability, but often do not.
Sometime we love the choice we have made, we love our partner. We are not looking to change partner. But we have communication problem with the opposite sex. Just notice something. Most women we have actually similar thought about a situation we are having, while men may think differently. This communication problem is huge. Sometime we need help to communicate it and understand it from opposite sex. Women have tendency to act and think with emotions so we do not think same as men. This makes it hard for us to make our partner understand what we want from them
Many women are looking to change men let's be honest here. When a man doesn't like you guys. You guys get mad , stay, complain and try to convince him to be who you want. Same with friendships. In my gals group it's the same thing eveh if it's small trying to change the woman's make up , wardrobe, thoughts. y'all gotta stop. Glad I outgrew that phase
If you don't accept him or he does accept for who you are, that is not love. We have to accept that certain aspect will be different. But if you guys love each other you have to be ready that both of you need to compromise when you don't agree. It's half from each side. Having right type of communication with the right one if he really love you, you will see an effort from his side.
For the gals things, you are not accepting her. Accepting is accepting people are different from us not a clone of us. In a group you can suggest, help her to upgrade without her needing to lose herself
And sorry for the gals. But girls need to be genuine about herself. If she not confident about herself. Do you think someone will accept her as she is?
Because sadly a lot of females’ not all but a lot of them don’t take accountability for their selfish decisions, and actions , Most female think they were put on Earth to be catered to and that they do no wrong , it’s always the men’s fault but never her own , How dare she ever take accountability for her behavior , she always deserves better than wha she already has right in front of her. I dump girls’ the second she becomes selfish and only cares about herself , I can’t stand selfish girls’ period
This is very astute @carolinagirl5 . I have thought about this a lot over the years. There are some girls that I really thought a lot of that ended up marrying losers that ended up divorcing them ans spend the rest of their lives chasing these bums for child support
Well, society has made it its job to coddle women... Thus creating narcissistic victims who don't reflect on their behavior, but just blame whatever and whoever will help them absolve their bad decisions. Women are the innocent angels getting taken advantage of by men. Later versions of Feminism amped it up 100 fold..
On this girls and guys are the same. As I said communication is the most important with guys. Even girls looks elsewhere if they are not satisfied. In a relationship comprise and accepting each other is the most important while communication is the key of the relationship
It's not like every guy runs around with a big "I'm an asshole" warning sign on their head. People can be deceiving and show their true nature only weeks and months into the relationship
People saying all women running into those issues are idiots are not better than those saying all men are assholes. The world isn't black and white.
True, but I have seen people whom you might called "asshole" being like that with some. But when they find someone who match with them, feel good with them or even got understood. The guy have totally changed.
Labelling people with an etiquette is not a good thing. The action is due to the fact that the person is not ready to be steady or he have not met someone meant for him
@lilBigPotato so you need signs on the forehead to tell you when someone isn't good for you or something is dangerous? That's a you problem you have poor judgment and lack common sense. make better decisions next time
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