Most main complain that women cheat, most women complain that men cheat. Does it have to do with the fact that most men don't try hard enough to get a good partner and get with women who are more flirty and unreliable? Does it have to do with the fact that most women prefer those guys who are attractive by societal standards and have lots of options?
Most men complain about women and most women complain about men because both sexes have unrealistic and unequal expectations of each other.
Women have been conditioned by society to expect too much from men and to seek a life based on traditional gender stereotypes, such as marriage and family, instead of focusing on their own personal fulfillment.
On the other hand, men have been conditioned to seek approval from women and to value themselves based on their ability to attract a sexual partner.
Most men and women complain about others because they have internalized these unrealistic expectations and ultimately have not found the right partners due to the dysfunctional nature of the gender relations system.
The solution is not to try to conform to traditional gender expectations, but to abandon the system entirely and focus on personal development rather than the pursuit of romantic relationships.
Most men and women complain about others because they have been conditioned by society to expect too much and not value what really matters in life.
The solution is to completely abandon the system of gender relations and focus on personal development.
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Because most people in general are selfish and only really care about themselves when things don’t go their way , They easily point fingers at someone else over pointing fingers at themselves , they find no wrong in themselves , most relationships fail because people do not know how to remove selfishness for each other , it’s their way or no way , they easily assume the worst case scenario when things don’t go their way , for a relationship to survive both partners have to make each other their top priority , understanding they can’t always be right and their partner is always wrong , accepting each other’s flaws and wearing each other’s shoes before making decisions, if you can’t do that for someone , they will not be able to do it for you. I feel social media played a big part on destroying relationships by feeding people’s heads that grass is greener on the other side , instead of accepting what is right in front of them , most people think that’s the life they should be living when they see other peoples lives , instead Of just being grateful for what they already have , People that cheat are selfish people, that only think of themselves and think they deserve better and that someone else is going to save them , to realize they were wrong all along because they were selfish , sad world we live in
most people complain.
Even very privileges people with a partner, a house, car and healthy kids complain. Just human nature I guess
Talk to people in the real world and stay off the internet. You will find there are still a lot of happy couples out there.
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It’s because they are both home sitting on the couch, gaming, and flipping through apps like “anything good” is coming from dating app 🤷🏻♂️ Of yeah.
b-tching about who is paying.- u
Why do some people love to complain?
Christoff92 is right specially culture. If you are not yourself from the beginning and being honest with who and how you are. Then the relationship will fail soon or later.
But these days people specially women are most looking at matieral things and looks.
We men see a women and don't need to change her. We want her the same way how we get her to the end. Women change things on themselves and expect we like it every time. But soon or later we can even understand why they are changing so often specially there hairstyle.It depends on the person. This is why there is so much discord in the dating world. Because some people only care about themselves and view dating as it's the other person's responsi ility to make me feel good while I have no responsibilities. Even if you are a good person. After meeting enough of these people it either breaks you into quitting. Or worse makes you bitter and vengeful.
I think both are true about your question. Most women today chase what the 17 year old girl in her says is the most attractive. After repeated attempts with those types of guys failings she may resort to more conventional guys. Problem is by then she's old and used and even probably angry. Most conventional guy simply don't want the task of trying to undo all that damage. It's simply easier to remain single. I mean, he's used to it at this point.
People often prefer to complain cause it's easier than looking inwards and looking at what they're lacking themselves. Additionally some people refuse to heal properly after a bad relationship and instead will wallow in the toxicity.
Part of navigating life is to meet people in the middle. If more people would be able to do that then there would be less issues
Don't understand them... different than expected.
It's often because of society and its gender roles. Humanity has lost so much of its humanity, thanks to society and science.
Love comes naturally. But personal and cultural traits need a lot of work for both men and women to sort with 🙂
we just have to talk to each other and live with it
I think those that complain about the opposite sex, male or female, are just frustrated because they aren't dating/marriage material..
Men complain about women because they lie, cheat, steal, and talk too much.
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