If dating/sex is so simple for men (get money become rich) why the hell do men complain about struggling with women so much?

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Every time I see a man complaining about attracting no women, there’s always some guy that replies to him and says to become rich. Well guys, if the simple solution to getting a woman is “becoming rich” why the hell are y'all complaining so much about struggling with dating/sex? And why do incels with money exist? Have men forgotten it’s legal for women to work? You need more than money to get most women.

EmyyWolf · Accepted Answer

Exactly. I tell them this all day every day. Goes into one ear, comes out the other.

They’re lost. And they’re better left alone, in the dark.

You can tell them to workout , hit the gym, get a nose job, get some facial surgery. NOPE! Doesn’t want to do shit.

Cause p—orn on a screen is easy.
It’s also easy for all of these sheep 🐑 to listen to Manosphere content , and laugh at women getting bullied for 5 seconds.
They turn off their phone and the reality is the same one, he’s a hideous sexless loser. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ who can’t get any ass in real life. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Katebfun · Accepted Answer

I'm convinced that most men don't honestly "like" women. They like their bodies and that's about it. They see women as a sex object only. Not all men, I'd say a good portion. Then there's men who play on the DL & confused 😕

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I agree that "become rich" is the worst advice ever. I always tell them to hit the weights (which I'm about to do, yet again today). Just hit the weights bro!

Think about it... what if that "become rich" advice works? We both know what kind of women he's going to attract with that bullshit. You know, the kind of woman that puts "seeking a generous man" online as if we don't know that means $$$$

Hit the weights though and you're attracting women simply because they want to rub their fingers down your abs, notice that you chest muscles are bigger than their tits, and squeeze your arms. Basically, they just really want to phuck the dude if that's why they're giving him her time.

I think developing a sense of humor is an even better choice than trying to flash money around.

But if they go the "money" route... yeah it will work. But my fellow dudes... why go for some chick that wants you for money, in a long-term restriction from other chicks, and then she'll rip you off in the long run? Like just why? My fellow dudes that have excess money, FFS, please just get a lineup of different chicks that you pay for sex! It simply makes more sense, and it's cheaper! You don't have to really listen to her stupid mother phucking problems, and you got varity!

If you want companionship... buy a fucking dog FFS.

Anonymous · Answer

Money, and money alone, will attract a certain type of woman, but for everyone else, it won't keep them around unless there is some type of substance. Like you could be super rich, but if you never call me, never spend time with me, barely see me, that's not a relationship, and there is no point to an empty house...might as well be single.

JacobJordan · Answer

That is an over simplification told by generally undersireable men who found themselves getting more attention upon obtaining money. What really makes a difference for male/female dynamics is being a good person, oh sure money can help but even a broke ugly guy can get a great woman if he has a decent personality. Not sure why/when this silliness started about being rich to attract a good woman. All money seems to attract is bad people good people never seem to terribly concerned with being excessively wealthy they just want a good life and aren't focused on having excess wealth

Inbox · Answer

I don't know in what universe you heard any of this, but dating is much more difficult for men because even the average looking girl has options - most guys have to work their asses off just to get a date or even get laid. Have you ever thought about the men who complain are not rich themselves or just simply inexperienced? Or how difficult it is to attain a high income?

Even if a guy has money, it would only attract gold digger type of women (not girlfriend/wife material) and what you need to understand is that the men who say "just get rich" are only focusing on the conclusion based upon external observations. In other words, they don't realize that having money helps, but it does not mean you'll find the right type of woman and most likely, those men themselves aren't experienced either.

RingOfFire · Answer

Getting rich is not the "simple solution" for guys like that because it's not simple to get rich any more than it is simple for them to attract women.

You do see a lot of ugly men with a lot of money with hot women. It's because women are attracted to power, status and success.

Years ago I used to do college level competitive sports and was pretty successful at it. Girls would literally be lined up to get with me after the games. They came out of nowhere. I didn't even know them.

Power and success to females is like fly paper to flies. They are naturally drawn to it.

Unit1 · Answer

I am guilty of advising men to get rich, so that getting women and sex becomes as easy as it gets. And then Andrew Tate said this, which changed my mind.

DextroShade · Answer

Getting rich isn't easy and today's women are the most entitled people to ever exist in human history. I just asked a question and linked a video about a 35 year-old baby momma who isn't pretty and can't cook demanding a man making six figures. This is hoeflation: a man has to work much harder than his grandfather for a woman who is much worse than his grandmother.

Light_beam · Answer

Women, all women adore money.. you are all gold diggers with different levels.. there is no such a thing called rich incels.. you just like to do horrible things and act like angels.. this way you can respect yourselves , because if you see the truth, you wouldn't 😊

Anonymous · Answer

Every time I see a woman complaining about attracting no men, there’s always some woman that replies to her and says you have to be beautiful. Well girls, if the simple solution to getting a man is “becoming beautiful” why the hell are y'all complaining so much about struggling with dating? All you need is a diet, plastic surgery and a boob job, right? Truth: you need more than beauty to get a quality man.

236color · Answer

Is it easy for you to get money and become rich? Now being rich is certainly not the only factor, but money will certainly get you sex, maybe not love, but sex for sure.

blueonblack22 · Answer

Oh yes “getting rich” is so easy. So so easy. Anybody can do it. I mean it doesn’t take sacrifice, discipline, hard work, luck or anything like that. Nah

Apple1996 · Answer

Money does not get them women unless they want a literal hoe off the street corner

normalice · Answer

The intention is not to solve the problem but to complain about it in a way that makes themselves feel better.

tzdc21 · Answer

Most men know that money isn't the key to gaining women. Or at least the ones with some sense.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

What makes you think it's easy to get a broad OR a lot of money? And, if she's only attracted to my wallet, she's not the kind of girl I want to be associated with!

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

On what planet is dating simple for men? We can’t just bat our eyelashes at women and make them like us. Not unless you’re Ryan Gosling or something.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

You lost all credibility the second you said the word “men.”

HouseMoat · Answer

Dating is easy, KEEPING someone around, is hard

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Because they try to steal instead of working it out.

Anonymous · Answer

You seem to think getting rich is easy, lmao.

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