Why are guys so nice to me? No one is ever a jerk?

[Anonymous]

[TheRealPepperPotts]

With that little information, it's hard to say. Let me ask you this, though: Are all other people always nice to you and never jerks? Because if everyone is always nice to you, it's not a good thing necessarily. It can mean you have no conviction about anything and always yield to the opinions of others. You may be a people-pleaser, or you might just be beautiful and have a sweet face and manner. Guys typically like gentle, sweet, beautiful girls. It's neat to have those qualities! As long as you know how to maintain boundaries, too, you should be fine. And listen to MrOracle, he's on the money!

[Unicornrose]

Guys sometimes be really nice for all reason mentioned. But mostly for slot of them... They are just gentleman. It happens sometimes. Just nice guys

[MrOracle]

My guess is that you are a combination of pretty, feminine, and sweet, and so most men find you attractive (not just physically/sexually, but also romantically), and so they want you to think good of them in return, and this causes them to treat you nicely.

A lot of girls are pretty, but aren't necessarily feminine or sweet, and while they'll get sexual attention, they won't always be treated nicely.

[Asker]

Aww! Yeah maybe. I am a generally sweet person to everyone I meet. I just like to also maintain some boundaries at times though because I am not sure if the guy is single or not and might just be friendly with everyone. Things get a little awkward.

[MrOracle]

That's totally understandable. My advice to you is the same to everyone else: when you are ready to choose a partner, make sure your PRIMARY criteria is his morals, values and life goals, rather than his looks, status, popularity, or whether or not you feel butterflies. The most attractive guys are, usually, also the same guys who will just want to use you for casual sex, and only YOU can protect yourself from this by moving slowly and vetting guys well, based on their morals, values, and life goals.

[Sharkstealth]

I met a girl currently near my home where she is employed as a Starbucks barrista. I had seen her once before but met her a couple days ago. She is the prettiest girl I have ever seen and I am dazed by her to the point that I can't even think straight when I'm near. All I can say is thank you.

[desidoll]

Either you are just lucky to meet the right crowd of men, or you were so used to be treated not so right in the past.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know but you are very lucky. Though I generally experience the same thing so I guess I’m lucky too.

[DishLady]

Are you complaining? What's the point of this question?

[DrPepper12]

You're hot? Vivacious? Great body? Supermodel face? Intelligent? Interesting? Seductive? Kind? All of the above. Do you consider yourself very good looking?

[dustybiker2]

You are anon. How are we supposed to know anything about you?

[ProbablyClueless]

You're probably a nice and enjoyable person to interact with. It's amazing how far you can get in life by being pleasant and upbeat.

[LaurenM1997]

Count yourself lucky because there’s not a lot of men that are nice out there

[Bricealan]

You are just lucky with all of the jerks in society.

[Anonymous]

Guys are so nice to all girls they want to fuck, nothing special.

[Joshydavid25]

Or maybe just sweet girls..

[laly520]

what r we supposed to say to that?
r u annoyed or happy or complaining?

[Awesomesauce2005]

You are a young woman and you should be worshipped by men around you hoping they will get a date?

[Anonymous]

Because you don't perceive it nor do you attract it.

[12345678910000]

Cause you’re pretty sorry you’re not pretty you’re gorgeous

[Siri137]

Consider yourself lucky.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

They are nice, because you are nice 😊

[exitseven]

You might be attractive, or maybe wealthy;

[The_Sexpert]

Maybe you treat them nicely back too?

[CriticalCatDad]

You must not have met me yet 🤣

[GoGetitGio]

Prob because they want to sleep with you

[tasqueen]

You should feel you are lucky one