Ever met a person who even though they were kind and respectful and everything, they basically had zero personality?

[EzraIsShy76028]

So ya know... basically the title. The type of person who is not unpleasant or anything but just happens to have zero personality and who you probably wouldn't wanna spend too much time around as even though you don't dislike them you don't like them either. Basically, even though they're nice they're just boring.

I've had a few acquaintances and even friends like this. They were kind and everything but just didn't have anything that stood out about them. They just sort of existed in my life but I was unable to form any opinions positive or negative about them.

Though to be fair, I know a lot of people have probably thought the same about me. And I realize that maybe the reason they seemed so boring was they weren't close to me so they didn't feel comfortable opening up and revealing their true self.

[Darkest-Knight]

"The type of person who is not unpleasant or anything but just happens to have zero personality and who you probably wouldn't wanna spend too much time around as even though you don't dislike them you don't like them either. Basically, even though they're nice they're just boring."

You just described me.

[EzraIsShy76028]

Hahaha. 😅

As for me, in public or in front of other people in general I come off as that way because I know my real self would put everyone off, so it's just better they think I'm boring. 😤

As for who I actually am in private, I have a personality but NOT in a good way... lol. I'm extremely mentally ill with several mental illnesses, so my personal life is just a complete and total mess. I'm talking bipolar, depression, anxiety, autism, adhd, borderline personality disorder, ocd, possibly schizophrenia or schizoaffective, etc. All officially diagnosed except for the schizophrenia/schizoaffective one. 💀

So yeah. For me having no personality is better. 💪