Has anyone ever been in deep love with someone who turned out to be a despiteful person?

[me4545]

wondering if anyone been in deep deep love with a extremely unkind person. how did you feel when the love googles faded

[aceleon]

not love or anything just a kid crush at 3rd grade and she was not a good girl she died 4 years ago.

[me4545]

your only 21 get ready for the day you experience deep love. i experienced it at 27 and its the best thing in the world when its directed to a nice person who appricates it and give you a chance and the main cause of worldwide suicide when its towards a narc or wicked bitch who rejects you like a turd and humilates you. my person turned out to be a serial killer.

[aceleon]

no thanks, i don't believe in love more than i believe in aliens and even if i believe it, it makes me feel physically repulsed the idea of loving someone in that sense, i don't want that sort of things in my life i want brothers, my family and some girls to fuck from time to time, romance can rot in hell for all i care, i live with instincts not emotions i have familial bonds and pack mates but no mate for me if there is not a harem that waits for me, i can be young but i decided my path in life, anything a male lion is, is the thing i am.

[me4545]

romance isn't love. romance is like going on date and buying valentine cards. love is more deep than that and it will never rot in hell because it from the divine side. lust like fuck is more likely to rot in hell than love.

[aceleon]

love is divine? that literally borns from expectations and benefitting from another person.
also i said can go rott in hell for all i care, means love can be damned only real love is either familial one or friendship.

[me4545]

dud i am not there to change people i done doing that. just sad the world is full of people who believe in sin and not in the word of god. makes it hard for Christians to find someone.

[aceleon]

iam not a christian, i am muslim and it bans us from doing this things too but i am not about to ruin my life for something i don't even want or believe (love of course not religion)
i am owning all of my sins and hope i would have enough time to ask for penance but i don't have any intention of settling down and letting a girl in my life and as long as i have a functioning malehood i will have needs and even if i don't do it with girls i still masturbate and it is hard to say no when you find an easy target.

[me4545]

love isn't benefiting true love is selfless by definition. what you are describing is called high maintenance and entitlement completely different.

[me4545]

i was so badly hurt by love that i would say yu might be better off not experiencing this

[aceleon]

won't she expect me to bring money to the house?
won't she expect me to listen to her craps i don't give 2 shits about?
won't she expect me to deal with her relatives i don't like?
won't she want me to help her with kids or house chores?
won't she expect me to give her orgasms even though i just wanna cum and dumb?
won't she want to do things i don't want to or not feel like it in the mean time?
won't she expect loyalty from me even though i as a biological male want to have sex with as many woman as possible?
i already know i am a selfish bastard you don't need to call me on that but her expecting these from me won't make her selfless either.

[aceleon]

i hope i never experience because i genuinely don't wanna, being loved might be good experience but loving someone is not my thing.

[aceleon]

iam a taker in life not a giver.

[me4545]

i am talking about deep love like what you what in poetry. some experience it and its painful. what you are talking about is marriage its completely different some people get married and never love each other some people love each other and never get married also as Christian we believe love can we one sided. for example jesus loved his neighbours but they put him to death. someone can love a person who might want to kill them.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nah I'm patient when it comes to the reading someone part

[me4545]

lucky but love is blind tbh you can't control it

[ChicoFromThe305]

You can't but you can control yourself and separation is the only cure to toxic love

[me4545]

yea you are right my problem was worst because my dude was a stalker so i couldnt separate from him but yea most people can get over it

[ChicoFromThe305]

If recommend a restraining order in this situation lol

[Avicenna]

Yes, it's haooened to lots of people

[KrakenAttackin]

Been there, done that. This is a hard lesson to learn.

[Anonymous]

I've known women that were predators in disguise, yes.

[me4545]

women can also be awful not sure about predators but sadist yes. some love humiliating men

[Opinion Owner]

Well, use the word you want. When you prey on someone's weakness I consider it predatory.

[me4545]

someone prayed on your weekness if thats true i am sorry. predatory to me is more someone searching for a pray and grooming it for their own needs like perverts. plenty of them on tinder for sure more men than women. women might look for an easy man maybe to get a family that more called human nature than predatory.

[Anonymous]

No I haven’t experienced this

[me4545]

lucky you. personaly love can be used by god as a blessing or by satan as detruction. depends on who is at the other end of the feeling. you lucky you not experienced it because most of the time it doesn't end well sadly most people are evil.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I don’t want satan bringing me a partner to curse me I think the Lord is bringing me the girl that’s with me for almost 3 years now online relationship

[me4545]

god is kind people with a good heart can fall in love with wrong person but god knows how to protect us and redirect us.