Yes. I loved someone who was a ‘good person’ according to almost everyone I know and even me at that time. I am no longer in relationship with him and I can say that we destroyed each other (in my probably biased opinion, I would say he destroyed me more). During the many years we were together, I was torn piece by piece emotionally and at last, when I finally broke up with him, I had zero confidence in myself and I forgot how I used to be before all that happened. I am happy now but still trying to get back to my original self. I would say that love that destroys you is not true love. True love is what supports and lifts you even in your worst, it should be patient and kind. If love feels like a prison and destroys you, it’s not worth it.
Uhh yes
and no
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This is a really good question! 👏 Yes! I have! And Im almost dead
Yes I have and it wasn’t true love.
It was true for me then, but it was because he had helped me realize something about myself. I learned something, and crossed a major milestone with his help, and at that moment that gratitude had turned into attraction- seeing him different than the other guys, and believing there was no one as good as him. Somehow I needed him because he was like a part of my story,
but he didn’t like me for whatever reason, but never said that and was so rude to string me along. He never said “Rosie I don’t like you.”
so it was hard for me to get it clear, and I only realized that when one random day, he told me he asked a friend he had known for a longer time (before having met me) out- to be his girlfriend, and she said yes.
It felt like watching the person you loved marrying someone else.
it felt like the movie my best friend’s wedding..
Took me a long time to get over that. The memories of those past emotions are painful, but yeah I’m over him.
Her in the picture, and him being clear about what he wanted, allowed me to see the fact: we misunderstood each other way too much, more than most, and had two completely different life paths that probably won’t ever cross again, in this timeline called life.
Two floating stars out of billions. In the galaxy. That pass by each other just once, and it could’ve been avoided. It can be learned from and appreciated ofc, as well.
Try to get through it and realize you have everything you need to be successful and happy. It’s not dependent on others whatsoever.
But you see, any woman can and will destroy a man if he allows it. Men must be true to their nature as men which means being strong. When men attempt to act like women or to place the woman ahead of everything else, massive problems happen.
And even if a woman is 1000% harmless, the very fact she supports you being weak/pathetic means she is part of your destruction. But many women will actually actively work against you if you're foolish enough to allow that. That same woman might act totally different based on how YOU act.
Yes, I have and I literally almost died.
The truth is, I believed that I loved her so much that I couldn’t love anyone else. But, after a year of giving myself all the personal time I needed, I realized that I was wrong. I know what I am capable of and it wasn’t to stay with an awful deceiving cheater.
I look at dating much like the early Harry Potter shops for his first wand. If you are together and things get crazy, this is the universe telling you to get away from them. Don't try to stay and help them, as they will take you down.
When you look at it after all of that, there were often red flags and things that were going down to see a bad situation that you opted to be apart of.
Yes, unfortunately. But, I guess there was a lesson in it for me to learn.
I don't think it's love at all if they can destroy a person without any thought of what they might be doing.
Yes I liked someone when he fucked me over and destroyed Everything. I don’t really like talking about him much
Pretty much every woman i ever loved went out of her way to try to destroy me.
Yes but it taught me how to value myself more and how strong my intuition actually it🙌🏻
Yes, to the first question. It can be true love from one person but not from the toxic person
Yes... unfortunately a couple of times... but recently I met a special someone who is helping put me back together...
Yeah In my day dreams of what I would consider a relationship to be like
Ex - for awhile anyway.
With very few exceptions, her whole family is toxic.
I sure have. Women with borderline personality disorder are toxic as hell.
No, but I've nearly destroyed multiple women who were in love with me
Fuck em
Long story short. Yes!
Yes to the title, No to the description.
I think this is the one, maybe
Been there done that.
No, i have never married any women 😁😁
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