I've only loved 5 people in life like that. My mom, my sis, two of my exes, and one longterm crush. Learning those people probably wouldn’t do the same for you stings a bit but makes you a lot stronger and maybe even more savage. I’m no longer willing to love someone to the point of wanting to die for them. I wouldn’t even die for the ones above anymore. That is, with the exception that I’d totally give my all for my future kids. But only them. And well Sometimes I wonder if I’m a bit broken because I’ll never love another guy to the point of wanting to sacrifice myself for him/us. All i can do is love him til I don’t love him anymore. And if he can’t accept that, someone will 🤷♀️
In the early 1980's I was embroiled in the 'rescue' of a young woman targeted by an international human trafficking cartel operating from the New England corridor to Montreal as a side 'cash crop' for their drug trafficking from So. America. They'd literally 'kidnap to order' out-of-state multi-lingual college co-eds using 'date rape' drugs, having the existing connections to have these females nearly ANYWHERE in Europe, Asia or the Arab Emirates using private aircraft. These targeted co-eds were a 'cash crop' and to dissuade me... I was first offered a $7,500 bribe to drop the matter, that failing... a series of 'accidents' were attempted, culminating in a orchestrated 'accidental' explosion of my car's gas tank, done ineptly.
It is said: "The Devil's best argument IS that 'the devil doesn't exist" such a brazen attempt drew FAR too much attention. Even the corrupted local law enforcement couldn't cover up such bravado and so the cartel's local Egotist went for a one way swim in Lake Champlain, much as Jeffery Epstein 'hung himself' before he could cut a deal to disclose WHOM his pedophilic 'notables' were.
Yeah, at this point in time, I have only ever loved someone to that point that I would die for them and it would only be my wife, sister, mother and father. I would even rescue any of my dogs if they were being attacked by a shark or otherwise in mortal danger.
However, you made me remember the absolute stupidest, most idiotic thing I have ever said to my first girlfriend. We were kinda talking about this subject and I looked her straight in her eyes and told her that if she and my dog were trapped in a burning building... that I would rescue my dog first... Yeah, we kinda drifted apart after that. Go figure!
🤣Well, you know it was like my dog slept with my like up against my back... like I had this side of the room covered and my dog the other side... ya know in case of an attack! Hey, it wasn't like I was sleeping with my girlfriend at the time and a guy has to ensure the safety of the one who does have your back! 🙄 Then again I was like 14 and dumb as a rock thinking she would like understand...🤔 Yeah, I quickly found out somethings are best kept to oneself... and if you really wanna get laid flattery will get you everywhere. 🤷♂️ And the truth will keep you sleeping with your dog! 😜
I almost felt like that because he was a manipulative bastard but then I realized that he is playing me only to get sex in the future. I did felt a mild heart attack and I was shivering after I got a hint that he's not WHAT HE pretends to be. I really wanted to die but then I told myself "Hell no, I'll go to abroad and will be more successful than him". My love slowly started to fade away and I had developed a crush on a sweet boy and then after that I proposed my old school crush. It was a revenge against my manipulative ex. Then he again got caught in a lie so I LEFT HIM FOREVER.
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I REGRET BEING HONEST AND TRANSPARENT about everything with that manipulative ex.
I wouldn’t for my parent’s or siblings. Maybe for Hubs, but still low probability, same for my mates. They are all old enough to have life experience and I hate saying it, they perish, they perish.
In the for sure column, any of my nieces or nephews, my besties kid, and my step kid.
Family and every woman I ever chose to be in a relationship with. Even though I’ve had a lot of women, straight, gay, bi, even gold star lesbians 😂 but I’ve only had 6 girlfriends in my life, because I’m super picky with who I choose to commit to. If I make you my girl that means You completely fill every thing I need to not have the drive to cheat, because I have never and never will cheat on my woman because that can destroy a person and I’m happier with how I can give pleasure and peace to her. Any woman I am committed to I will kill and die for. I love them so much that even after we are done I only want happiness and Prosperity for them. And of course family any woman in my family and the young men, adult men It’s only some 😂 I love you but I’m not beefing with your rival over YOUR ex’s pussy, it’s always over pussy 😒😂 but yes it’s my duty as your man to PROTECT provide and mentally, physically, emotionally, and sexually please my woman and I take pleasure in doing so.
I understand your pain. It does hurt to know that they do t love you the same. And I have often wondered why I keep going back. Or excepting her back in my life. But the truth is that that is what love is. You need to be responsible with your hart and choose VERY carefully who you love. But love in its purist form is wanting the best for them in EVERY way and that does mean that you would be willing to die for them. obviously you have chosen to not allow that to happen to you again. But you will never truly be loved again if you don’t open yourself up and then in that you can fully love someone too. I hope you can some day!!!
I have an issue with this sort of love I guess. My little brother is the only person I can say with confidence that I would absolutely die for him. For anyone else I feel like it just wouldn't exactly make sense for me to. I'm the only one wanting to do anything different in my life, they die, we supposed to just meet up in Heaven later right? So I don't see what the fuss is about death in general then. Yeah I'll miss em. But not like where I'd give up my life so they can come back to accomplish essentially a lot of backbreaking nothingness that they themselves hate. Just I don't know can't make sense of it. Do I think there's other people I could feel that sacrificial with in the future? Yeah, I say so. Like the 1 out of the thousand. It is an interesting measure of love though. I also consider what I'd say at someone's funeral if to sort of figure out for myself how I truly feel about them.
Oh yeah haha I don't think I'd care to go to the funerals either in reality but it's like hypothetical situations I put in my head to explain my feelings for myself if that makes sense.
That is my test to know I am truly in love with someone. If I am willing to jump in front of a bullet for that person than I know I'm in love. I only felt that way with five women I have had a relationship with and I have only felt that way with some of my family members, perhaps no more than a dozen all together.
Hell to the no. they’ve got their life and I got mine. Other than my parents and siblings it’s every man for themselves. And even then I probably still wouldn’t die for my siblings. They’ll find a way to fuck up their second chance. Which leaves my parents. They’d lose their mind if I died for them as “they’ve already lived their part”
Of course well that's sort of literally what real love is.. So if you love somebody period you'll feel that way.. So that guy you'll love til you can't love anymore you'll feel that way too.. LOL.. It's not something you can control or halt the love at a certain point. 😅.. But, as for me.. Only my family.. I've had some strong feelings for people but I'll be conservative and say I never loved them..
For me you gotta be IN LOVE with the significant other to wanna die for them. I've loved many but only been in love with few. As for fam, it was just how much i loved and cared for em. But once you realize how onesided it can be, its like nahh forget it
Eeehh.. I don't necessarily agree.. In love to me means romantic love.. I feel that if you really love somebody wether you are in love or you felos love, you'll be willing to die for them. Even if it's one sided... Jesus' love was one sided for many many people.. Yet he died for us.. So you know.. Just sayin.. 😅
No, not for love. I gave my oath to my wife and I stayed committed to that oath right up until she died. I've had a couple of other ladies in my life. One was just a temporary fling that turned out to be insanity wrapped in stupidity. The other I thought I could possibly commit to her. Then she left with someone else.
When I went into the Coast Guard, it was with the idea that I would save lives or die trying. I almost did a few times. In Vietnam, I knew if I made a wrong step I'd be dead but I was determined that AI was going to save those I went out after.
One has no greater love than to lay down one's life for others.
You have to stop and ask yourself, "Do I really love them? Or do I feel this way just because I still want them in the picture?". Many people suggest going to extremes for others, but they don't realize they are confusing their feelings of "love" for a feeling of infatuation. They are doing this because subconsciously, they just want the person in the picture because they have been lonely for so long, and this person is the only one that stepped forward.
They feel there will never be somebody else if it doesn't work out. So they begin feeling these feelings of "love", to attach themself to the other because they think it will get the other person to stay.
I could not answer the poll you gave no option for my choice. I am a knight at heart and I do not have to love someone to die for them. I have put myself in harms way many a time for people I did not even know. I am one of those people that runs towards trouble when others run away.
I loved my twin almost enough to kill for her. Then I grew up a bit and realized in not responsible for her life Choices and it took realizing she didn't feel remotely the same towards me.
The person I loved and was closest to in the world is like a stranger to me now. Who told me she only got closer to me because she knew she was gonna run off with some guy 2x her age.
All this at a time I thot I had 1 friend in the world and it was b. s
In 2009 my Mother passed because of stage 4 heart failure and 7 months later, my Father of stage 4 COPD (No, he was not a retired policeman.) I told the doctor when my father passed "I would GLADLY give up one of my lungs for him," but then I collapsed, crying, The doctor asked why, I told him, "It wouldn't be fair to my Mother, because I didn't think of giving my heart to my Mother."
I'd die for no one even if I loved them more than anything. I don't believe in an afterlife, so nothing is worth dying for to me. I would however go above and beyond to keep someone I loved alive as well.
Probably no one. Such time of love is extremely painful. Expectations hurt. I don't love anyone more than they deserve to be and i love them enough to let them go if i had to, without getting hurt.
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