Have you ever loved someone to the point that you’d die for them?

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I've only loved 5 people in life like that. My mom, my sis, two of my exes, and one longterm crush. Learning those people probably wouldn’t do the same for you stings a bit but makes you a lot stronger and maybe even more savage. I’m no longer willing to love someone to the point of wanting to die for them. I wouldn’t even die for the ones above anymore. That is, with the exception that I’d totally give my all for my future kids. But only them. And well Sometimes I wonder if I’m a bit broken because I’ll never love another guy to the point of wanting to sacrifice myself for him/us. All i can do is love him til I don’t love him anymore. And if he can’t accept that, someone will 🤷‍♀️ #FeelFreeToList #ToDieFor

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

Have you ever loved someone to the point that you’d die for them?

In the early 1980's I was embroiled in the 'rescue' of a young woman targeted by an international human trafficking cartel operating from the New England corridor to Montreal as a side 'cash crop' for their drug trafficking from So. America. They'd literally 'kidnap to order' out-of-state multi-lingual college co-eds using 'date rape' drugs, having the existing connections to have these females nearly ANYWHERE in Europe, Asia or the Arab Emirates using private aircraft. These targeted co-eds were a 'cash crop' and to dissuade me... I was first offered a $7,500 bribe to drop the matter, that failing... a series of 'accidents' were attempted, culminating in a orchestrated 'accidental' explosion of my car's gas tank, done ineptly.

It is said: "The Devil's best argument IS that 'the devil doesn't exist" such a brazen attempt drew FAR too much attention. Even the corrupted local law enforcement couldn't cover up such bravado and so the cartel's local Egotist went for a one way swim in Lake Champlain, much as Jeffery Epstein 'hung himself' before he could cut a deal to disclose WHOM his pedophilic 'notables' were.

Jaumet · Accepted Answer

Yeah, at this point in time, I have only ever loved someone to that point that I would die for them and it would only be my wife, sister, mother and father. I would even rescue any of my dogs if they were being attacked by a shark or otherwise in mortal danger.

However, you made me remember the absolute stupidest, most idiotic thing I have ever said to my first girlfriend. We were kinda talking about this subject and I looked her straight in her eyes and told her that if she and my dog were trapped in a burning building... that I would rescue my dog first... Yeah, we kinda drifted apart after that. Go figure!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I almost felt like that because he was a manipulative bastard but then I realized that he is playing me only to get sex in the future. I did felt a mild heart attack and I was shivering after I got a hint that he's not WHAT HE pretends to be. I really wanted to die but then I told myself "Hell no, I'll go to abroad and will be more successful than him". My love slowly started to fade away and I had developed a crush on a sweet boy and then after that I proposed my old school crush. It was a revenge against my manipulative ex. Then he again got caught in a lie so I LEFT HIM FOREVER.

ImSparkly · Accepted Answer

I wouldn’t for my parent’s or siblings. Maybe for Hubs, but still low probability, same for
my mates. They are all old enough to have life experience and I hate saying it, they perish, they perish.

In the for sure column, any of my nieces or nephews, my besties kid, and my step kid.

Almost10inch4funlol · Answer

Family and every woman I ever chose to be in a relationship with. Even though I’ve had a lot of women, straight, gay, bi, even gold star lesbians 😂 but I’ve only had 6 girlfriends in my life, because I’m super picky with who I choose to commit to. If I make you my girl that means You completely fill every thing I need to not have the drive to cheat, because I have never and never will cheat on my woman because that can destroy a person and I’m happier with how I can give pleasure and peace to her. Any woman I am committed to I will kill and die for. I love them so much that even after we are done I only want happiness and Prosperity for them. And of course family any woman in my family and the young men, adult men It’s only some 😂 I love you but I’m not beefing with your rival over YOUR ex’s pussy, it’s always over pussy 😒😂 but yes it’s my duty as your man to PROTECT provide and mentally, physically, emotionally, and sexually please my woman and I take pleasure in doing so.

Born-for-sex · Answer

I understand your pain. It does hurt to know that they do t love you the same. And I have often wondered why I keep going back. Or excepting her back in my life. But the truth is that that is what love is. You need to be responsible with your hart and choose VERY carefully who you love. But love in its purist form is wanting the best for them in EVERY way and that does mean that you would be willing to die for them.
obviously you have chosen to not allow that to happen to you again. But you will never truly be loved again if you don’t open yourself up and then in that you can fully love someone too. I hope you can some day!!!

BUNroaster · Answer

I have an issue with this sort of love I guess. My little brother is the only person I can say with confidence that I would absolutely die for him. For anyone else I feel like it just wouldn't exactly make sense for me to. I'm the only one wanting to do anything different in my life, they die, we supposed to just meet up in Heaven later right? So I don't see what the fuss is about death in general then. Yeah I'll miss em. But not like where I'd give up my life so they can come back to accomplish essentially a lot of backbreaking nothingness that they themselves hate. Just I don't know can't make sense of it. Do I think there's other people I could feel that sacrificial with in the future? Yeah, I say so. Like the 1 out of the thousand. It is an interesting measure of love though. I also consider what I'd say at someone's funeral if to sort of figure out for myself how I truly feel about them.

Leavesbound · Answer

That is my test to know I am truly in love with someone. If I am willing to jump in front of a bullet for that person than I know I'm in love. I only felt that way with five women I have had a relationship with and I have only felt that way with some of my family members, perhaps no more than a dozen all together.

electromagnetic · Answer

Hell to the no. they’ve got their life and I got mine. Other than my parents and siblings it’s every man for themselves. And even then I probably still wouldn’t die for my siblings. They’ll find a way to fuck up their second chance. Which leaves my parents. They’d lose their mind if I died for them as “they’ve already lived their part”

Lliam · Answer

I wouldn't kill myself.
I'd risk my life, even for a stranger, if I thought there was a chance I would succeed.

If someone captured me and my wife and told me to choose which one would live and which one would die. I'd say "Kill me and let her go."

JDavid25 · Answer

Of course well that's sort of literally what real love is.. So if you love somebody period you'll feel that way.. So that guy you'll love til you can't love anymore you'll feel that way too.. LOL.. It's not something you can control or halt the love at a certain point. 😅.. But, as for me.. Only my family.. I've had some strong feelings for people but I'll be conservative and say I never loved them..

DaveToo · Answer

No, not for love. I gave my oath to my wife and I stayed committed to that oath right up until she died. I've had a couple of other ladies in my life. One was just a temporary fling that turned out to be insanity wrapped in stupidity. The other I thought I could possibly commit to her. Then she left with someone else.

When I went into the Coast Guard, it was with the idea that I would save lives or die trying. I almost did a few times. In Vietnam, I knew if I made a wrong step I'd be dead but I was determined that AI was going to save those I went out after.

One has no greater love than to lay down one's life for others.

Interstate · Answer

You have to stop and ask yourself, "Do I really love them? Or do I feel this way just because I still want them in the picture?". Many people suggest going to extremes for others, but they don't realize they are confusing their feelings of "love" for a feeling of infatuation. They are doing this because subconsciously, they just want the person in the picture because they have been lonely for so long, and this person is the only one that stepped forward.

They feel there will never be somebody else if it doesn't work out. So they begin feeling these feelings of "love", to attach themself to the other because they think it will get the other person to stay.

ThePolishKnight37 · Answer

I could not answer the poll you gave no option for my choice. I am a knight at heart and I do not have to love someone to die for them. I have put myself in harms way many a time for people I did not even know. I am one of those people that runs towards trouble when others run away.

Melamore · Answer

In my opinion. I would never die for a lover in the sense that, if he were to break up with me I would feel suicidal. Nope.

However would I jump in front of a bullet for my mother, or my kid if I had one? 100% I would.

lucas262 · Answer

I loved my twin almost enough to kill for her. Then I grew up a bit and realized in not responsible for her life Choices and it took realizing she didn't feel remotely the same towards me.

The person I loved and was closest to in the world is like a stranger to me now.
Who told me she only got closer to me because she knew she was gonna run off with some guy 2x her age.

All this at a time I thot I had 1 friend in the world and it was b. s

No one will probably get that close again

Tim-loves-it · Answer

In 2009 my Mother passed because of stage 4 heart failure and 7 months later, my Father of stage 4 COPD (No, he was not a retired policeman.)
I told the doctor when my father passed "I would GLADLY give up one of my lungs for him," but then I collapsed, crying, The doctor asked why, I told him, "It wouldn't be fair to my Mother, because I didn't think of giving my heart to my Mother."

loves2learn · Answer

My 2 children. 100%. No question. Though I know me dying would destroy them. Too hard to think about.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I'd die for no one even if I loved them more than anything. I don't believe in an afterlife, so nothing is worth dying for to me. I would however go above and beyond to keep someone I loved alive as well.

NathanDavis · Answer

It's not like I wanted to die for someone, but I've put mysself on the line for those I care, literally.

ariadneR · Answer

Aside from family. Def my current boyfriend and even his family.  If his dad needed part of my liver. Take it. But definitely my boyfriend

Dude_777 · Answer

Probably no one. Such time of love is extremely painful. Expectations hurt. I don't love anyone more than they deserve to be and i love them enough to let them go if i had to, without getting hurt.

REALSTEEL · Answer

Yes I did, done that got treated worse then shit in return im beyond sick and tired of going out of your way and getting treated like shit

Ninjazzed · Answer

My grandma, she doesn’t have much time left to live but I would still willingly give my life to her.

Wiredone · Answer

I love my wife and kids so much that I would die for them. I take that chance every day when I go to work. One wrong move and I could be a gonner.

just_a_potato · Answer

I would die for my mom. For my little sister and baby brother. I felt that way about other people but never for long. There is no one else on this earth worth dying for.

Pink2000 · Answer

I love my boyfriend so much. I wouldn’t die for him though. I wouldn’t die for anyone.

kkirk4442 · Answer

I would die for my wife, children, and siblings. I would also seriously risk my life for others, if they were in real need of help in an emergency.

Caliguy88 · Answer

A lot of people I’d take a bullet for. That’s what a man does. That’s part of life. That how I was raised. And I’ve never been in that position but I’m the guy that does anything for anyone. I don’t think anyone that knows me would disagree with that

clampfan101 · Answer

I have for one girl. Unfortunately she died in a way I couldn’t possibly save her from…

Mystery_World · Answer

Yes I did but world is cruel. You can't expect the same love coming back to you.

yourbabygirl921 · Answer

Well for my family I would sacrifice my life and and to my future husband for sure and maybe kids that's it

Dragonpurple · Answer

I'd think you'll find that most parents feel that way about their children, dying for them if it meant saving their life.

princeofromance · Answer

Unfortunately, She did not feel the same way about me.

Mehzmeh · Answer

My first love. I was willing to give all of my organs to her before she died.

Hans222 · Answer

A, but not in a love relationship. It's about friends and close family members.

Neko911 · Answer

Yep. My boyfriend. I'd do anything to protect that dummy

abc3643 · Answer

THIS: Q: Have you ever loved someone to the point that you’d die for them? The fact of the matter is that, if you don't feel that way, then you don't love them. PERIOD.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I think I could easily develop such a feeling for someone. We'd have to be in a relationship first, though, since I'm not as naive as I used to be.

Riddler1412 · Answer

Only my close family members, and two of my friends.

Tiffanyloves2swallow · Answer

My boyfriend is my life and soul mate he is all I have in this world

NewGlados · Answer

There is no one who i have loved to the point i'd die for

Zygum · Answer

Nobody dies for others, wrong conception, this is Romeo Jullet era

Anonymous · Answer

I would give my life if the consequences were right..

FakeNiceGuy · Answer

Thats nice.. So you too.. You let go... Firet.. Its gor the good..

H8INCHES · Answer

My daughter is the only one I would jump in front of a truck for.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Yep when I was young and dumb

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I'd die for my husband, dad, mom & brothers.

S3ntnl · Answer

Yeah. Feel like retarded when I think of it now

PeacefulRainDrop · Answer

Yes I feel that way about my man

hailiegirl12 · Answer

my mom, dad, brother, sisters, grandmas

Sarahnah · Answer

Not yet, but I hope to when I have kids of my own.

Purplemonkey242 · Answer

Yeah. Im dumb 😆

marieuwu2001 · Answer

yes but he didn't even care HAHAHAH unlucky

eagle1951 · Answer

for 37 years till death do us parted

Agape93 · Answer

Yeap and still do.

magiusX26 · Answer

its complicated beyond belief.

AdithyaR · Answer

Other than my parents, there's nobody I'd die for.

worldscolide · Answer

yes, just one.. my wife.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I have.

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

Yes i have a couple of gfs

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

My mom and grandparents.

jahaims · Answer

All my friends, wife and kids

Rob17792 · Answer

yes i would die for demi

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