You ever get to a point in life that you don’t know what is right or wrong anymore?

[Finchie40]

The only thing I can accept in my life right now is honesty , I can’t really trust in things anymore , I been burned to many times giving my heart to be shit on , in no means do I think I am perfect what so ever , I have done things in my past that I regret but I feel like I learned off of those mistakes to better myself as a person , but now I feel no matter what I do isn’t Good enough , I learned to remove selfishness and temptations to show a girl I love and value her but I feel she can’t do that for me and then I feel like what is really the point of being in a relationship with someone if they are eventually going to get bored and do something they will regret and suffer the consequences from? How do you really know someone loves and values you if they are secretly screwing someone else behind your back? It’s hard for me to fully give myself to someone when I have constant question marks floating over my head on whether someone truly loves and values me or not? I can’t be happy with myself if I am having these question marks. , I can only love someone the same way they love me , I know I can’t force someone to love me or make me feel wanted , all I ask is to just be honest with me , don’t string me along for your selfishness, if you met someone else then end it with me don’t hold onto me as a convenience, it seems like this is what people do to each other and it’s so pathetic , Let me go , stop playing a victim an comparing me to make yourself feel better for your actions , I am tired of girls saying they want a man that is nice and values her but when she gets that man she gets bored and looks elsewhere, I can only be with a girl that wants my cock , if she wants other guys cocks then go and leave me the fuck alone , I had a party last night and some of the girls that came and the way they were acting just made Me SMH on how selfish and slutty they really were , saying they just want dick in them? Why do people degrade themselves like this?

[Anonymous]

No man! I'm not going to tell you it has never happened to me before. But you have to remember who you are, where you came from and your morals and values. We live in a very toxic world today and a lot of women are VERY toxic. This site is a very good example. Women will use thier anger and their toxicity and try to infect you. Because toxic people if they can't find happiness in their own lives they just want to see the world burn. If they can't be happy you can't either. I have man great examples of quality women in my life. And not surprisingly all of those women are married and have stayed married for Many, many years. Because these women KNOW it's not all about them. So it's very easy for me to spot a toxic woman and dismiss her. This is also how I know that that the bad women outnumber the good ones 10 to 1. So you're fighting a battle where the odds aren't with you man. You have to be extremely strong and resilient. Never let a woman's shenanigans get to you man. Always remember you're a man and above that. Itl's very important for a guy these days to KNOW his value. And KNOW what he's not willing to tolerate. And when a woman crosses that line it's very important to cut her off and never look back.

[NathanDavis]

one day you seem to imply that you're a nice guy with values and all...

but then the other day you imply how you wanted to your friend's girlfriends or something? lol

but no... I sure can tell the difference between right and wrong, in all that, lol

[Finchie40]

It’s things like that that make me question life and relationships lol

[NathanDavis]

what about therapy?

gaining perspective from others as well... we do not always have to unravel all these things by ourselves

it is okay to get help

[Sisters_Of_Time]

I wouldn't say that I have forgotten what is right and what is wrong. However, I have lost sight on what is right and wrong for me, what will bring me joy and sadness. What would I regret less? That is a question that I am trying to answer!

It's a demon that's plagued me for a week now. I found an answer to one question but another question surfaced, but I am motivated. Frustrated but driven. I will not come up with revelations next year, I need to get this resolved by the end of the year and when those fireworks go off I want to look back on what I've done and be happy.

[Finchie40]

Yea it just seems like when I tell a girl that I like a lot and tell her what I really want in a relationship she doesn’t believe me , she thinks I am just some random guy that just wants his dick wet , and that is so not me , For me to have sex with a girl , I have to feel valued and wanted , yes I love sex , but I only love sex with a girl that wants me the same way I want her , chemistry and connection, I can’t just bang a girl for the hell of it and most girls don’t believe me when I say that , they just assume every guy is a player , And that is not true at all , sex to me is best when 2 people have deep feelings for each other and know they have each other’s backs , that’s where love grows , I don’t want a girl that just screws random guys cuz he is hot, If that was the case I would buy prostitutes cuz she looks hot , I have never paid for sex and I never would cuz there is no chemistry and connection , it’s dirty and degrading to me , if I wanted to just get off I would beat off , I just feel like I can remove my selfishness and temptations for her but she can’t do that for me , I am not going to be in a relationship with someone that just likes the convenience of me. I become territorial of a girl that has my heart , I can only protect what is mine and can’t get jealous or insecure of something that isn’t. I know what other guys are thinking just like girls know what other girls are thinking , I am not going to cheat on a girl that values me , I will cheat on a girl that treats me like a convenience and I will end the relationship right then and there , I am not Going to strong her along for my selfishness, I already answered my own question that I don’t love and value her

[Sisters_Of_Time]

Sometimes venting is all we need to do to find the answer!

[Gent207-2]

Your nihilistic tirade ia enough to kill someone. Now I get it life and people suck but to paint the whole of reality as dingy and hopeless doesn't help anyone especially yourself.

Nobody wants to stay with someone like that and honestly they shouldn'thave to just for you to have one less thing to be pist at the world.