How would someone match sex drive with their partner?

[Anonymous]

Or do people gotta go for someone around the same as themselves for it to work, cause aren't some in the mood at day or at night so it got me thinking on how it works within a healthy relationship if they it's different from each other.

[Sonorous]

Tbh just eating enough calories & making sure to get enough healthy fats should do the trick.

I hypothesize that it's even better if you time the fats so that they leave the stomach around the time when the act would happen. For instance, I notice that for me, I can just multiply the grams of fats that I eat by ".2" and get the exact hour it will leave my stomach & enter my duodenum. So let's say I was gonna get laid at 2am "today", if I know I won't be in the mood I could eat around 15grams of fat right now because it would fully leave my stomach in around 3 hours.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

What @northerngal said.

Fulfillment doesn't come from a pragmatic standpoint, I suppose it's tempting to view a relationship as a set of pragmatic problems to solve, probably because you're looking at it like an object, as a student, externally, instead of experiencing, internally. Also because you are not actually experiencing it with someone? Because that someone doesn't exist, yet. When there is someone to share with, it is challenging some, if not many views, you may have thought about. Because, a relation happens on the feeling side, much more than the thinking side.

[northerngal]

Sex drive ebs and flows with people. Seldom are two people in perfect sync. But a good relationship recognizes this and adapts. Good communication is vital.

[Asker]

So you are lying it all just kinda falls into place and into like the same rhythm?

[Asker]

Saying*

[northerngal]

Not really. But if you care about each other you adapt. We are not animals right. We can control our behavior.. So when the drives are different the partners communicate and make accommodations.

[Asker]

I never thought of how this part of a relationship worked, this makes a lot of sense tho, thanks for clearing it up 🤔💯

[northerngal]

Just my opinion... get others too.

[Asker]

Oh so it's not the facts

[MicahRaine]

That is so based, love it.

[Apple1996]

I wouldn't want to be with someone who has the same sex drive as me lol my drive is way too high so I need someone with a low/normal drive to calm me down

[Asker]

Imagine the chaos, y'all would probably have to buy a new bed every week of this balance y'all have was broken 😂

[Asker]

If**

[Apple1996]

It would be crazy. I'm thankful that my husband is chill and isn't needy for sex all the time like I am

[Asker]

You know what they say, if it's not broken, don't fix it am I right

[Sunrising]

I've got an incredible low sex drive 😉 !

[valentina4eva]

i think it’s usually easiest to find someone with a similar sex drive as u, in terms of how many times/week😅😅 but for time of dayyy i am usually more flexible lol🤔🙈🙈

[Asker]

By more flexible you men what exactly barbie face, that you can adjust to any time? Also I don't think it's easy to find someone with a very similar "schedule" as you really think of those odds, it can't be in anyone's favor lol

[Asker]

Mean***

[valentina4eva]

flexible as in, sometimes i have times when i am in the mood earlier in the mornings, but i find usually men are in the mood more in the evening instead and their preference usually ends up overpowering mine!!😂🙈

[valentina4eva]

similar schedule as in like, someone that is in the mood 1x per week prolly shouldn’t be with someone that wants it 10x per week😲😅

[Asker]

Ooh okay it's all making sense now, barbie face is far more informed than anyone would assume, and here you give off such an innocent I didn't do it vibe, devious little Barbie 😂

[valentina4eva]

😂😂 i am well informed on many different topics, not just barbie thingsss!!💁🏻‍♀️😋😋

[valentina4eva]

and ofc im innocent!!😇😇

[valentina4eva]

…except when im a ‘devious little barbie’ 😈😈

😜

[Asker]

I don't know what to believe anymore 😭

And why am I protecting you if you have a hidden devious side 😂

[valentina4eva]

lolol i have confuzzled the Chico!!😂😋😋

[valentina4eva]

ohhh wait, do u only protect innocent barbies?🤔 oh im definitely innocent here, no devious barbies here sir😅😇

[Asker]

I guess my duty remains weither you are devious or not, the world only has one barbie, there's no other Barbies to protect, at least not giant ones with souls 😂

[valentina4eva]

yassss bodyguard achieved!!🙌🏻😂

[Asker]

😫😫😫

[valentina4eva]

u have signed the barbie contract!!😋📝

[Asker]

there's a contract, the barbilluminati 😫

[valentina4eva]

barbilluminati!!😂🤣😂

[valentina4eva]

well u are the one that’s the magical genie remember!😂 if u didn’t want to be part of the barbilluminati u should have just *poofed* my thoughts into something else 💭

[Asker]

No I don't like doing that, what's the whole point of protecting the giant barbie that has a soul if im gonna be controlling her thoughts, it's only for when you are sad or depressed 😂

[valentina4eva]

well i appreciate u only use ur magical genie powers for the forces of good!!😇🙏🏻

[valentina4eva]

but u are already a part of the barbilluminati now!!😲😲 the contract is signed in…glitter!!✨✨

[Asker]

Well I can always rip the contract if I want out, but I kinda like being the barbie protector, from barbie traps and bad kens 😂

[valentina4eva]

‘barbie protector’ that’s ur official title now!!😂🫡

no bad kens😤 (only good kens😅)

[Asker]

Biggest duty of all since there's only one in the world lol

[MemeSupreme]

no one has the same lol you just communicate needs and stuff

it's normal to not be perfect

[Asker]

I like how you said so much to say nothing momo 😂

[MemeSupreme]

WYM it's as simple as that

and i can't go any deeper in the details without airing out my own sex life lol

[Asker]

You could just generalize, nobody said you have to expose your secretive sex life, the answer to my question doesn't have to be personal 😂

[MemeSupreme]

but i did generalize lol

like you gotta figure out what you both like/want and work from there. like there's no specific cookie pattern solution bc everyone is different

[Asker]

See that's better information lol

[MemeSupreme]

BUT THATS WHAT I SAID

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[Asker]

Nah you said it all bummy 😂

[Miah06]

You gotta find someone with yours or similar. Or you will either be having to hold back, or catch up depending on the situation.

Eventually it becomes a problem

[Asker]

So it's not just personality I gotta consider 🫠

[Miah06]

Yeah. It can become a problem.

[Asker]

Ill keep that in mind

[Sunrising]

Eating plenty of avocado's does the trick for me !

[CubaPirate]

Communication is key

[Asker]

How dare you slay my question with such little literature 😂

[MicahRaine]

@ChicoFromThe305 lmao