Of these three things, what do you think is the most difficult for you to do?

[itsannalee]

1. apologies
2. forgive
3. ask for help.

[HawkPerception]

Asking for help is something I never do. Throughout my life I literally cannot remember asking anyone for help a single time. Lifting stuff? I always wanted to try lifting it myself. School work and assignments? Nope. Work? Nope. Parents to pay for stuff? Never (although I didn't stop them from paying for me on some things growing up obviously). Never asked anyone for a drop. I remember I'd walk back 8 hours from one city back home before I'd ever ask anyone for a ride or even sleep outside.

A part of me takes pride in the fact I don't ask for help and another part of me hears all the people saying it's immature to not accept help and feels a little guilty about it. But it's who I am.

[OneViewpoint]

My Kryptonite is definitely #3, asking for help. I think most guys have that trait. We are socialized from birth to just deal with it. Whether "IT" is something physical like home repairs or emotional turmoil. Guys are NOT rewarded for "sharing" their struggles. Women call us emotionally unavailable. And that may be true. We've been trained to be that way. You got what you asked for.

[Nikki1989]

Ask for help. I like to figure things out for myself. I will read a book about something rather than ask someone for assistance on something.

[Caroline91]

Ask for help. Too often there end up being strings attached.

[Sonorous]

Apologize because people love to feel superior. Sometimes I cringe at the idea of making someone feel that I'm at their mercy. It's why I prefer to apologize through a change of actions.

[Lliam]

I have never had a problem with asking for advice or assistance.

I have no problem apologizing, either, if I did something that hurt someone.

The toughest for me is forgiveness, but it depends what the person did. Sometimes it's easy. But if someone stabs me in the back or deliberately does something to hurt me, I may never forgive them. I want loyal friends and a loyal partner.

[Fireguy17]

3. By nature, I am one that comes in and helps no matter what.
It is just what I do and have done for a long time, as well as those I work with.
So, I try to figure ways to do things myself, so I don't have to ask for help, but sometimes that is what you have to do.
And there is nothing wrong with that. Maybe someday I will believe it.

[Still-alive]

I'm pretty good about doing all these things but if i had to choose then maybe apologize mainly because sometimes its difficult to know exactly what you did wrong or that even if you know what you did it can be hard to realize that it was a wrong thing to do or say.

But when i do realize its wrong i got no issues manning up an apologizing for it.

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Yea probably ask for help. I can be stubborn sometimes

[itsannalee]

Same here, I've moved out from my parents house to different city since I was a teen, and that time it was new year I didn’t go back to my parents house because i don’t have money to take bus and transportation, and even had no money to buy a tampon but I was still stubborn and didn't tell my parents and act like I don’t really care about it. And choose to be scolded and blamed by my parents 😄

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Okay?

[Danielle93]

Probably forgiving. It depends on what the nature of the offense was. Some things either can't be forgiven immediately and others never.

[slatyb]

Number 3. This is typical of children neglected by their parents. They don't ask for help because their parents have taught them that no one will help them.

[thestateofdk]

Hands down, forgiveness. And what I mean by that is TRUE forgiveness. So many people can't or choose not to forgive. For instance, your partner cheats on you. It's a coin flip if you leave them or not, irregardless, it may take years to forgive them for something like that.

[Gwendoline]

Apologise to my partner. Honestly to my shame I sometimes use sex rather than saying sorry.

[itsannalee]

You have to change that, some people get really hurt and got trauma coz of that (when someone deserves apology and the one who did mistake avoid it)

[Summeroflove]

Ask for help it makes me feel bad. It’s not so much of a ego hit as it is me not wasting to make someone feel obligated to help me

[TheSpaceGnome]

Forgiveness under specific circumstances is impossible. Under reversable circumstances its easy, the other 2 are easy.

[NathanDavis]

the other are quite easy...

asking for help is not something I will always do... lol

[fish5505_87]

Apologize, really need to get better at this, right from the get go. I am good at forgiving though, I guess that's not bad? Unlike most men, I have learned to ask for help!

[msc545]

Probably forgivness is most difficult for me - I have a very long memory. Apology is easy for me if I am wrong, and I easily ask for help as well as offer it when it is needed.

[Shiprex]

I order of toughest to easiest

3

1

HUGE GAP HERE.

2

[talka20]

None but id go for 3rd bec rest two are still easier than 3rd one for me

[Manuelwe]

All equal to me. But most women I know come is this order
1 ask for help ( usually a chat up line)
2 Forgive me
3 apology for their mistakes, (never)

[douride2]

Personally I have a difficult time asking for help. The other 2 I have no problems with.

[blackeagle007]

A toss up between 1 and 2. 3 is easy, asking for help is helpful

[HungTexan]

For me. Ask for help.

[Agape93]

Forgive. I don't do it.

[MemeSupreme]

asking for help is hard as shit

[ohsheeT]

Ask for help. For sure..

[Bklynbadboy12]

Ask for help i have a real hard time with that one

[exitseven]

I would say ask for help.

[WhitneySnow]

Ask for help

[KostasKouvalis]

definitely applogize

[bowenw]

Ask for help.

[Ironco]

3, but I'm a man.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Ask for help 😂

[Account]

Agreed

[ChicoFromThe305]

Never have I seen you ask for any help 😂

[Account]

I dont know how it is done lmao

[ChicoFromThe305]

Even if you did you probably still wouldn't lol

[UknowJT93]

can I add one more... mostly Saying No...

[Paige90]

Ask for help

[leahzrc]

forgiveness

[dudeinohio]

Ask for help

[I_am_a_human]

forgive

[Staximus]

Ask for help

[Pterodon]

Forgive

[nawtee_me]

Ask for help

[CubaPirate]

Forgive

[MikeRJ]

Ask for help

[Rohaan2020]

Asking for help

[wkhan_87]

Ask for help