Why do people think that just because you are a nice and kind person it gives them permission to treat you like crap and use you?

[sage2021]

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https//youtu. be/kbKW3dCd0lo? si=jukh4J43UXvYpqRRI GUESS I GOT MY ANSWER BUT IT SURE AS HELL DOESN'T MAKE ANY SENSE TO ME AF ALL. PEOPLE ARE SO WEIRD AND THINK WEIRD! 🤪🤪🤪

[TonyMetal___86]

That's because they see it as some sort of weakness and because they start taking you for granted wether on purpose or not!

[sage2021]

@TonyMetal__86

I am 70 years old and I am just now finding out that being nice to people is a bad thing!!
It wasn't always like this - it must be the screwed up in the head type of people 🤪 who think like that these days.
"Oh look! There's one of those nice people again!! Let's see... what kinda sh*t can I pull off on them"? Said the bully to the other bully!!🤪

[TonyMetal___86]

It's bad when it's given to the wrong people and it's bad when it's given without limits and each person is different, plus in this generation they lost their morals and values unlike in the past where morals and values had a big impact on a person's character!

This shows that we are evolving backwards, instead of growing the positive things that makes us different from animals, we eliminate them so we become animals ourselves!

[sage2021]

@TonyMetal__86

You're 100% right on!! 👍🏼 Now that I know that being a nice person puts me as an easy target for people to do treat me bad, I'm going to have to get my faithful Glock out and dust it off and start scaring these crazy thinking people!! I hope it doesn't accidentally go off?🤔🤷🏼‍♀️

[TonyMetal___86]

😂👍🏻

[TonyMetal___86]

Tnx for the mho 🙂

[Bricealan]

@sage2021 Sad part about human nature, Sheryl

[IslaTheWitch]

they don't; it's a very hurtful generalization...

and everywhere, you will find an exception that will break the rule... don't focus on those degenerates...

[sage2021]

@IslaTheWitch

Thank you for your words of wisdom because this is something that I am really struggling with in my life right now and quite frankly I don't get it!!

[TrueConfection]

Takers take and take and take some more!

[sage2021]

@TrueConfection

Thanks for giving us your opinion. I take it that you know what I am talking about. I just don't get it!!🤔

By the way it's great to see you again!!🌸 It's been such a long time since I've seen you on here. I remember a long time ago I used to see you regularly right?

[douride2]

Some do others don't. I think you may be over generalizing here because someone you thought was a friend took advantage of you.

[sage2021]

@douride2
The video link I put in the update explains exactly why most people are like that.
So it's not just because I had a bad experience, it's happening all the time to a lot of people.

https://youtu.be/kbKW3dCd0lo?si=VMuP7t6IeSpTthHe

[rizzzz007]

People look kind and nice as a weakness that's they treating bad to those people but what they don't know that in this world being a kind and nice is make them unique.

[NathanDavis]

no, they don't...

[sage2021]

@NathanDavis
Man, under the update I posted a link to a video all about it. Why don't you watch it and get enlightened about it? Sure no one is going to treat you like crap because I have seen a picture of you and people won't mess with someone like you but that doesn't mean it isn't happening to a lot of nice people.
Maybe you're just not nice enough to get screwed? Maybe?🤔

[fish5505_87]

Good Question?