What are signs loved ones miss routinely when things get bad in your mind?

[Agape93]

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

My support system is pretty good about seeing my signs when I'm going to a bad place. Usually I become really sullen and become even more self deprecating than usual. I start to push people away saying they should go and be happier without me, maybe asking if they will just let me go and do what i have to do, and that one there is a major thing they key on and ask if I'm off my meds or if I'm having bad dysphoria.

[Agape93]

I remember one of those bad episodes.

For me I usually drop hints in conversations about where my minds at, and if nobody picks up on it I just stop giving those warnings entirely because nobody's paying attention

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

That's fair and I know when I'm in those moments, trying to be obvious is the last thing on my mind. I just want a way out. It's nice to have a support system who is on guard for you.

[Agape93]

Agreed. It was hard for awhile before babe moved in, it was just me here, so if nobody was around then I either would finish it or I wouldn't. But at least she's here to literally force me to stop

[MemeSupreme]

if you mean suicide

if they usually seem down or depressed but all of a sudden are the EXACT opposite. not guaranteed but just complete 180's are a sign

[Agape93]

I do similar. I just stop advertising my depression and issues. Nobody reached out so nobody would get a warning

[MemeSupreme]

not even just that

like the day i attempted i felt a weird calm come over me bc i made peace with it and somehow more empty than i normally felt. it's hard to articulate

[jahaims]

I come off as having less energy or interest but I'm just not masking.

[worldscolide]

I get quiet, withdrawn. Single word responses.

[7Phoenix7]

My sense of humor gets darker.

[Neverfail99]

I withdrawal or avoid eye contact.

[lightbulb27]

Say what?

[Agape93]

Suicidal people have things they do or say that tell people what they will do. Most people miss those heads up entirely.

[lightbulb27]

Not sure what is missed. I think people retract, lose energy and care and depress. Mind pain is a maze and hopelessness is the sign of capitulation. My mother saw that in a sibling… parents are or should be connected to kods w empathy and she saw it when i didn't.. and prevented a tragedy. I sadly did not slresd the tea leaves when my mother was failing warly enough and regret that. Fogured out but realize i was dunce. Older people are another nut to crack.
In general take time to care. I just read how biggest componyto happiness is community. That says something about us humans

[Agape93]

You'd be surprised what people frequently miss, and how often those that do notice it, choose not to say anything