If you restarted your life from scratch, would you end up in the same place?

[Jay-_-]

[Anonymous]

If I had memory of all the lessons I learnt in this life when I'm starting again then no I'll not.

I have done many mistakes in each and every step. And each and every step I had choices to choose from options. But just because of my own mental illusional boundaries I kept choosing what I felt like it's within my boundary or this is right and that is wrong.

Now at present when I almost lost everything I realised that there were no boundaries as such as I used to think, there were no such rules what I kept following as right path. I was wrong all along my way. And the consequence is that now I'm left with nothing. No shoulders to support, no hands to wipe my tears, I made my own legs weak trusting the crutches that were never really present there. What I'm who I'm, today I don't know even that properly. What's my identity I am unable to identify myself.

[Jay-_-]

It's never too late to start again, as long as you feel bad for your mistakes, start over writing a new book and forgetting your old one, forget what you've done, think about what you could do now for yourself and others.

[Jay-_-]

Some people stay stuck in their ways because they think "it's who I am" it's not... You can always do better, change, start new, not because you are faking a persona but because you really want to change.

[Jay-_-]

It's not hard to tell right from wrong, you know not to kill a person, you know not to rob anyone, you know not to randomly curse someone out, it all starts with letting any kind of negativity out of your life, including the negativity in you. Stop doubting yourself, you are worth loving, you are worth a lot, you just haven't found that self yet.

[Crimsyjo]

God I hope not. Not that I'm unhappy in thos exact moment. But there's so many things I would choose to do different. Probably be more career focused early on and choose never to have children. Enjoy fun and sex in my 20's instead of being married and marry a better younger gut than I did. Also look after myself better with going gym and skin care routine. None of those things mattered when I was young.

[Blueeyes81]

If I were able to keep my memories, no. If it was a hard reboot and everything was a first experience again, then I think it'd be very similar. Not fate so much just that we'd be doomed to make the same mistakes that our own peticular nature steers us towards.

[genericname85]

probably not even if i tried that very hard. doing all the exact same things twice is impossible.

[PrincessC16]

No, I would protect myself. Wouldn't rely on others. Wouldn't have gotten married so young.

[exitseven]

No, I wasted a lot of time and money trying to do things that were not realistic.

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn't. Not if I would remember everything.

[alice55]

No I wouldn't