If you could start your life all over again, hypotetically, knowing what you know now, what would you do differently?

[SpaceGalaxy]

[OldWomanBySoul]

A lot of things. 1. I'd visit my and spend a whole day with my uncle on his, now, death anniversary (in that case maybe he'd wouldn't have ended his life) 2. I'd spend way more time with my great gramps and Grampa 3. I'd convince my mom to take me to psychiatrist like a good decade earlier than when I, myself, decided to go there as a grown up 4. I wouldn't answer my dad's calls or messages when he tried to contact me after my parents' divorce... I could go on and on but I'll leave it at that lmao

[menina]

I would have chosen my family (assuming that was possible), I would also change the country where I was born. I wouldn't have moved to another country when I was 2 years old. I would have gone to another school when I was 15. I would wait until I was really able to go to college, instead of rushing it. I would have start working when I was 18.

[SpaceGalaxy]

which country were you born and which country are you in now?

[menina]

I was born in Angola (southern African country) and I live in Portugal.

[menina]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Andres77]

I've spent hours and days and weeks and months and years thinking about this.

Time -travel decision-making.

When I have trouble falling asleep (seldom, but over the years it adds up) I started with my earliest memories and rewrote my own history. I don't mix up my fantasy with reality except for this: if it's a memory of being treated poorly I try to understand why they might have done so and try to forgive them. Rare... but it's a few less unforgiven hurts.

The rest is just fun. And I would have avoided so many regrets and I would have become a friend and better helper to my mom much earlier, knowing now all the horrors that she went through. And I would have been better prepared to be a good daddy.

[call_me_scar]

First male fun off all the arguments my parents had growing up to their face as they screaming at each other second skip going to church I'd like my Sundays back, 3rd buy a safe sooner and save all my money in it and keep an eye on stocks grab as much as I can growing up selling in the middle of 2019 then when the mask virus hit I'll wait till the market is at its lowest and buy more and sell it for a profit

[call_me_scar]

Make* not male

[art84]

I would have stayed in high school for another year then graduating earlier in 2002. Being in college at 17 years old was stressful. Saved up my money in my 20's like $100 and put it in a savings account for the future. Avoided my grandfather funeral and grandmother's funeral when I was a little kid like 4 years old and 7 years old. Just couldn't understand death at a young age and always never got over their deaths growing up.

[nolabels]

I wouldn't fuck up the stuff I've fucked up.

I'd take more risks. I'd make choices that are more suitable to my constitution.

I'd try to be me.

[CrimsonAngel09]

I'd be a lot more tougher and not give a shit what bullies think. Then I wouldn't have depression, anxiety, and body dysmorphia.

[SnowedIn]

Finish college. Make different choices in love. Make drastically different choices in financial stuff.

[CuriousMufuxka]

That would depend on what age I respawned.. I doubt my recreated infant brain could handle all the shit I've been through and would probably explode immediately. If I could just go back to my early 20's, I'd invest mad stock into ebay, yahoo, and amazon.

[magiusX26]

biggest change, i would never have started dating anyone ever. my experiences with dating tells me there us zero value in it.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would get my own housing, living with relatives are rough.

[poetic_pisces]

I won't join law school

and I won't beat myself up and over think everything

[Likes2drive]

Different jobs , stick to my decisions and not let my ex wife change my financial decisions back then and things would be so much better

[Quackthulu2]

Fuck no. I don’t want to relive this shit.

[SpaceGalaxy]

That is the question. What would you do differently knowing what you know now.

[Quackthulu2]

I wouldn’t. That’s the point. And if stuck in some fucked up twilight zone bullshit I would just off myself as a child

[Yannishka]

I'd place so many bets!

[Anonymous]

I'd try to make it so that i was never born