If you got to do your whole life over, what would you do differently and why?

[Little_Secrets]

Literally anything, something big or small it doesn't matter...

And ONLY comment if you're actually going to answer, no "I wouldn't change anything" type of answers, they're boring!

[Bitter_Sweet94]

I’d choose myself sooner.

I’d stop trying to earn love through patience, over understanding, or self silencing.

I’d trust my instincts the first time instead of waiting for patterns to hurt enough to be undeniable.

I’d walk away earlier from people who were confused about me, not because I lacked compassion, but because clarity is a form of respect.

And I’d invest less energy in proving my worth, and more in building a life that actually felt like home.

Everything else taught me something, but that lesson came late.

[SecretsofKB]

My first thought was to not date some of my ex's lol. But a the same time, they helped me figure out what I wanted and didn't want in a person.

In reality, if I could go back, I would probably not go into healthcare. I love it (mostly), I feel fulfilled (mostly), and I am in too deep to back out now (completely lol). But there are a lot of times I hang out with friends or at family get-togethers and hear about everyone else's jobs and their issues and thing "I want those problems" lol.

[Desi_Butcher]

How much more I'd do just to be with her and not watch her go away if I could do it all over again.
Would sleep in the nights and not in the days instead haha..
Not be so selfless and show a mirror to some
And a lot more that I'd wanna do haha

[Orion84]

Assuming I know what I know, now? I can think of two things:

1) I would have never started smoking.

2) I would have never dated my most recent ex-girlfriend.

[ohsheeT]

Well i love this question because I believe that's what will happen we arevall soul mates we are all one conscience. This is why it say become one with self Become one with others Become one with our universe our God

Because your every thought happens to you or as a whole our body is our temple every thing we do and Become is with frequency..

Now when I come back if I can just remember your question then I would change every thing. Now in this moment and fir the rest of my life I would change one thing just for the fact if I did or could then I might know the things I know today I I don't care what I've been through. It's all good as long as I know what I know right now

But here's the thing we come back again it's our parents our environment our friends that help mold us in who we become so even if I was to say right now what I would do or what I would change who knows if I could make it happen

[egan3141]

1) Not play football nor obsess over how much weight I could lift once. I would focus on all kinds of strengths instead and enjoy other sports that aren't so hard on the body
2) Spend more time learning "man" skills from my dad (fixing things around the house, the car, etc.) He is still around and I am learning some things, but there are so many more chances as a child living with your father.
3) Probably find a different career. Coding is not looking good right now.
4) DEFINITELY not quit my job just before covid and end up unemployeed for a full year...
5) Biggest one of all, start looking for a girlfriend/wife during school and keep working on it until I find it. Starting after finishing college makes your options so ridiculously limited.

[Anonymous]

Well what if you're rather happy with your life. Not everyone is miserable here you know.

I would've gotten married sooner and started investing sooner. I'd also have played it a little less safe when I started investing. When I was young a 100k seemed like a massive amount. But today a million doesn't even.

I also would have taken care of myself better. When I was younger I figured I would see any malady coming. That ain't always the case. And what's the old saying? An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I would have played football in highschool. I spent so much time figuring myself out that I didn't even give myself a chance to realize how athletic I was.

I also would have made my business partner sign a contract at a specific point in our relationship. Neither of us were good at that kind of thing back then.

[TonyMetal___86]

I would of approached my first crush in school, also would try to become her boyfriend and see if it's going to last until we grow up and get married, i wish if i can be given this chance again, even though i don't know if she will ever accept it but it'a worth trying!

Another wish: i wish if i can go back to my 1st real love which was an LDR to repair a couple of things and make it work because i believe that if i had married this woman, it would of lasted forever!

[MemeSupreme]

im kinda socially inept and somehow put myself in the most cringy situations

so there's a lot that i'd go back and change lol

[Sunshinelips]

I almost got ran over and I almost drowned when I was a child (on different days/years) I probably would’ve allowed either one of those to happen differently then I wouldn’t have experience adulthood.

[TonyMetal___86]

Are you okay?

You're last question was about eliminating 5 billion people with a virus and now you're being suicidal or wishing of you had died!

What's wrong 🤔

[Anonymous]

Take care of my health and physical fitness better, start going to church sooner and pursue the education and career path I'm currently on sooner. That and maybe put a little more effort into forming friendships and relationships although I'm pretty content with my own company as is.

[NathanDavis]

I would drink a lot more water... and a lot less Coca~Cola...

[Agape93]

I'd end it. I am not doing this shit over again.

[Nikki1989]

I would have avoided a couple of people, but apart from that, I have no regrets.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't have sniffed gasoline one time when I was 19. The damage to my brain and body still effect me today.

[Massageman]

I would have avoided going to a magic show the Sunday before my dad died.

I would have bought Carvana stock in 2022-2023.

[Hellraiser1984]

Never moved from Washington State to kansas.

[Anonymous]

I would change most things.

[katiesmuff]

So many things!