Why don’t provider slaves realise that they’re not rewarding rulers?

[Babygirl_S]

If you pay her just because she looks good to you, you’re not masculine or a daddy. You’re like a slave daddy or puppy.

You want the “game of men to be on” but you being submissive like that doesn’t make you any ruler. I hear it so often that they want submissive women to be jealous of women who have dominated them financially or in terms of looks

It simply doesn’t happen like that. A submissive woman can feel frustrated that there’s no good dominating man but never jealous of what she simply doesn’t want—someone who pays her for existing or supplying her vagina.
You simply cannot make an orange lover feel jealous that she doesn’t have apples 👌🏻

[ShrunkenGuy]

Who’s “they”? The men? The women?

I don’t understand the findom myself, but not sure they care what a third party thinks.

I suppose the woman considers herself successful and if she’s particularly narcissistic and it’s not an act might look down on ‘submissive women’ as simply jealous when they disapprove of what they’re doing.

The men are sometimes ridiculed by other men as ‘simps’, but not heard of accusations of jealousy, probably that links in with the female competitiveness for attention maybe?

Men are normally more jealous about men with money, power, or a particular beautiful woman, whereas in findom you aren’t ‘with’ that women so nothing to be jealous of and generally men aren’t jealous of other men frivolously spending in general, but of what they got for their money, the car, the yacht, etc.

Again, maybe a cultural divide on such topic where it’s very different views in other parts of the world.

[Berethor]

A women who take money for supplying her vagina is not a submissive woman?

[Billlewis]

If a selfish, arrogant woman or couple thinks that a weak beta male loser should pay her (or their, if she's married or attached), I never question their position or make any attempt to circumvent their perfectly reasonable opinion; I just thank them effusively and serve them exclusively.

[AndrésC64]

What are you talking about?