Do you think anyone can learn charisma?

[Lalalove11]

I personally kind of don't. I know some people who were born with it. For example, my grandad. From a young age even on the school yard all the kids would be surrounding him and forming a group around him. I was the opposite as a kid and a complete loner. I really don't think it's something you can just learn. Yes there are aspects you can improve on but I honestly think it's a special gift.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Interesting question. I think it isn't something anyone can learn or is born with. Because it's like asking "can I learn to love?" you know. Instead I think that charisma is just a consequence of life events and how fine you're feeling with yourself. If, on top of that, you're feeling fine around people, if you're not letting them enslave you, then I think people will "respect" you. And that's what we call charisma?

Charisma is a funny thing, unlike you I don't think it comes from within us. I think it is something people point at when referring to you. So it's technically nothing you can or should master, because you can't control how people look at you?

[BadApple69]

I think it’s like a language… if you don’t learn it when your young it’s much much harder to learn it when your older.

[Lalalove11]

Hm makes sense

[Simslover92]

Based on playing the sims it is a skill that can be learned and developed. But some people like my bestie are just born with it. People flock to them and crave their attention.

But I do believe it can be learned by those that really want it.

[HusamRocks]

Yes they can learn it but they also have to earn it since it relies on their characteristics which means it's not that simple 👍🏻

[OneViewpoint]

In a word. No. Not everyone can learn to have charisma. Some people are just too stupid.

[Lalalove11]

Oh damn. Stupid? Couldn't it just be socially inept not necessarily correlated to iq?

[exitseven]

People can learn how to be more confidence and self assurance. It might seem that they are more charismatic.

[MannMitAntworten]

Perhaps to some degree it can be. Thing is, if you are uncomfortable in your own skin it is hard for most to get beyond that and be, charismatic.

[Xawyx-2]

No, it's usually natural for some people... not something you can "learn".

[Staximus]

Politicians can fake it, so maybe

[Bklynbadboy12]

Sure they can

[eagle1951]

maybe