Do you think you have a good heart?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Kinda? I live off less than 1000 dollars a month and I still give about 20-40 bucks a month to Ukrainian charities. I keep tissues and caramels on myself any time I go out in public in case I bump into someone even a stranger crying or having a bad day.

I've been in two barfights and on both occasions I was defending women and again a stranger from a drunk bastard trying to or succeeding in hitting them and I've taken a few punches to the face because of it as well as be grabbed and yanked by my hair.

On the other hand, I'm a very angry person and when people cross me or hurt people I care about me my empathy basically completely turns off. I often also actively wish harm on them if they've slighted me depending on how badly. On the other hand, I also refuse to inflict violence on anyone myself that isn't a threat to me or others and consider myself a pacifist.

In the longest fight I was in at the bar I let the dude punch me in the face three times before I resorted to violence. I literally kept trying to calm him down and talk him into leaving peacefully even after he had punched me twice in the face. Ultimately though my intervention was enough for his friend to get him away. I didn't press charges for assault even though I wanted to because the girl didn't want to, so I felt it wasn't my place since she was the victim.

He frankly got off lucky. I'm not a trained fighter but I was bigger than him and he was so drunk even when he punched me three times in the eye it didn't bruise, and I felt like I was being hit by a child I'm not even kidding he was spaghetti arms drunk. If his friend hadn't gotten him away and another dude stepped in the calm me down, I would have beaten him to the ground and probably kicked him in the gut until he was crying for his momma.

Basically, my default response is to be nice empathetic and helpful too everyone but the moment anyone wrongs me or a loved one I'll walk past them if they're getting the shit beaten out of them right in front of me. Depending on how much I dislike them I might even stop to watch. Basically, I'm empathetic to nice people and sadistic to bad ones.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Yes, I do pretty much so until my friend is try to take advantage of me because they know that I haves kind of funny. Because you're gonna have a funny heart. Because with a smile on my face, I go out of my way to kind of sabotage whatever is they're doing just to make my point. It was in the laughing. I do in the helping to a point.

But I mean, even people that I don't know if I see that they need a helping hand and I'm right there. I'm going to do it. But.
What I hate are people that you help one time and all of a sudden , they try to become your best buddy , because they're a grapevine that you will help people and then they try to manipulate you and take advantage of you and that's just doesn't get it

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

@berweic  Well I certainly like to think so... Thankfully I've never heard anything to the contrary.

Pearl222 · Accepted Answer

Yes, at least I think so. Of course the only real judge is God.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Yes and no. Think of me as a mirror. I can be your best friend or your worst nightmare. I can show emotion and be helpful or be cold as ice and truly not care what happens to you. I have a conscience but I can turn that off when needed. I have a sense of morality and ethics but I apply it based on the situation.

jshm2 · Answer

No. I am a belligerent bastard and would rip the heart out of anyone; be they man, woman, child or animal.

But I don't steal, lie or bully others into situations.

I may not be going to heaven, but won't be in the deepest place of hell.

Sometimes it's all you can ask, that if you are not the hero, not to be the outright villain or apathetic bystander either.

Wiredone · Answer

Yes and no. I am kind, considerate, respectful and caring. I would give someone the shirt off my back if they needed it but if someone back stabbed me the wrath of hell will be unleashed.

Also, my heart is damaged from the heart attack that I had in January so it's not as good as it used to be

TrimmedTip · Answer

Yes, I strive to be kind, fair, and helpful. But like everyone, I’m still learning and growing. A “good heart” is a journey, not a finish line. ❤️✨

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes, I treat people the same way I like to be treated in return , if someone treats me with respect I will do the same for them , is someone treats me like shit, I will do the same to them lol

Nikki1989 · Answer

That is what the doctor tells me, yes.

PretzelBeanie · Answer

I think it is a healthy heart, it keeps me steady. I don't know if it's particularly good.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I just had a checkup from a cardiologist. He says I am good. I eat a lot of beans yyoo.

DishLady · Answer

All actions and comments I get from others points to a resounding yes.

Tarifa · Answer

I hope so. Overflowing with care and love for the people who matter the most.

Clear_Skies10 · Answer

I hate most people, but I still treat them will love, respect, and dignity.

beenherebefore · Answer

Sometimes I have a good heart other times I have an ice box LOL.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Definitely. At this point, I would say that I have a good heart.

genericname85 · Answer

everyone who genuinely is fully convinced that they have one, probably doesn't have one. just saying.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I think i do but cross me and it will turn to ice quick

leahzrc · Answer

Yes but sometimes it freezes

dustybiker2 · Answer

I used to. Now it's survival of the fittest.

bobalife · Answer

I’d think so, usually am told I have a big heart.

CherryLove007 · Answer

yes I do, but I'm not a pushover :)

Jennz6 · Answer

I have a big Heart ❤️

AliceGregory · Answer

I believe that I do.

WhiteSteve · Answer

Absolutely. I feel rare in that too, sadly

Pumpkinpie222 · Answer

Most of the time, yes.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

My doctor cautioned me there. 🤨

trumpetplayerforlife · Answer

For the most part yes

Simslover92 · Answer

I think so.

es20490446e · Answer

I have good everything.

Xawyx-2 · Answer

Yes, I think so.

Staximus · Answer

For the most part

TallAnon · Answer

So far it's holding on

blackeagle007 · Answer

My bp and EKG checked out great always

FreyaRed · Answer

Nope.

CinnamonToesC · Answer

I try

Anonymous · Answer

I hope so. I've questioned that of late.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Yes.

Goran90 · Answer

I think I have

katiesmuff · Answer

Yes I think I do!

Agape93 · Answer

Nope.

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

Hmmm 😈 yes

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I think I do

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Its alright I guess

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know anymore

dudeinohio · Answer

I do yes

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Sure do

grega239 · Answer

Sometimes

Jeff51 · Answer

Yes I do

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I try

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