What would you do if your actions/inactions were convenient or pleasurable for you but your partner told you that those actions/inactions hurt them?

[Phantomshadow77]

[Asb_Samson]

If something feels amazing but leaves the other person hurt, it kind of loses its charm, doesn’t it? I’d rather slow things down, understand what’s going on, and turn it into something we both enjoy. The best kind of pleasure is when both hearts and maybe bodies are in sync. 😉

[AvaRay]

If someone I love says they’re hurt by what feels comfortable to me, I’d stop n listen not defend..

Cause for me love isn’t about convenience, it’s about consciousness..

Pleasure means nothing if it’s built on someone else’s pain..

[Desi_Butcher]

What actions/inactions are we referring to?

[Phantomshadow77]

Just actions that convenience you or you like doing. For instance, playing golf all day while your wife is exhausted and overwhelmed taking care of everything and watching the kids at home, never really getting adequate leisure time.

[jahaims]

It would depend on the context

[abc--123]

Change things up.