If an action/inaction was convenient for you but hurts your partner, would you stop doing that action/inaction?

Some examples could be not being emotionally attentive enough, not being involved in the domestic and childcare tasks enough, not putting in effort in sex, not spending enough time with them, trying to convince them to have sex, touching them in a way thatโ€™s pleasurable to you but makes them feel uncomfortable, avoiding uncomfortable conversations, etc.
If an action/inaction was convenient for you but hurts your partner, would you stop doing that action/inaction?
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