What insecurities do you have about yourself and why?

[thatgirl2000]

It's unfortunate when in humanity, we often are not kind to each other. We're not all naturally innately born with insecurities or complexes about ourselves. Those are learned through behaviors and experiences we have and with other people. For example the first time I was made to be insecure about myself was from other girls at school during PE class when we were getting dressed. I started to realize that we live in the society that has such high standards especially for women and young girls to have a certain expectations of our appearances. I know that this also happens to young men though.

[RandomGirl42]

I can get really insecure sometimes that just everything in the world is wrong with me from the way I look and dress to the way I even think and feel. But I have to remember that they are just insecurities and everyone has them to some degree. I am me and I am ok. Sometimes it is hard to say it and believe it but I know in my heart it is true.

"We're not all naturally innately born with insecurities or complexes about ourselves. Those are learned through behaviors and experiences we have and with other people." And this is so sad but true. I so often find myself hoping that someday, somehow, someway we will all be a little nicer to each other.

[thatgirl2000]

Very sweet response thank you. I just want to add you are enough already, don't fall into this what do we bring the table crap. Women are goddess that can create life. You are valuable and beautiful. ☺️

[RandomGirl42]

💖💖💖

[RandomGirl42]

And ty for the SO! 😊

[Bricealan]

@RandomGirl42 Really a great response

[RandomGirl42]

@Bricealan Thank you. 😊

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Oh I have a ton, but my biggest ones are about how I look which, yes, I know is vain, but I can't help it. It's so bad it's made me agoraphobic, afraid to be seen by others in public. Yes, I know it's weird because I have my photo up on here, but it's different in person. I also have a lot of anxiety about other things as well such as being a good mom to my kids.

[aceleon]

i guess my height, with 5'10 yes i'm not short but i would like to at least be as tall as my father (6'1) also most of my friends are tall guys so it kind of sticks out to me, my closest friend being 6'3 doesn't help either.

[Bricealan]

@thatgirl2000 greatest insecurity... I'm no longer 30 years old.

[QuineJessica]

I doubt myself and this comes from childhood. I always had the feeling that I was not like others, that I was not worthy of many things, etc.

Of course, as I grew older, it became easier for me, I tried to objectively evaluate myself and my successes. And I must admit that for my age and situation, I am quite successful.

Although some doubts still remain somewhere deep inside, I try to suppress them and not pay attention to what others think and say.

[exitseven]

I do not think that I am as good as everyone else. I have been overcompensating my whole life.

[Simslover92]

I'm insecure about not being articulate enough and smart enough.

[Justneedtokno]

Well not being enough, not bringing enough to the table.

[eagle1951]

i'm shy