How much hope you should put in things?

[Anonymous]

Just curious

[Nikki1989]

Hope isn't just about outcomes—it's about engagement. People who've shut hope down to protect themselves from disappointment also shut down their full participation in their lives. You can go a long way with solid positive thinking.

[Calyptomaniac]

"Hope is not a strategy."
-one of the bad guys from one of the 8 Mission Impossible movies

Keep your expectations down and plan for things. Don't just hope.

[Asker]

I am on overthinker, I plan for the worst to happen 😂

[Calyptomaniac]

That's infinitely better than hoping lol

[Asker]

And it happens , so I normally don't need hope.
But whenever I do (mostly for love because it's someone where i as a human can't control the emotions of myself and others)
It never works so I was thinking in a different direction.
Love is the most painful thing I had to endure, time and time again

[Asker]

True

[queenofcardio]

I'm always believing in myself.

[NathanDavis]

not on crypto, no...

[In_Trance]

What things?