Are you someone that pushes to be the same or different?

[ChicoFromThe305]

And you can be totally honest, you'd only be lying to yourself if you lied but why does it seem common in society for people to push for standards that are made up, everyone wants to be the same, they want to "fit in" and I can say for some it's like trading gold for steel, a downgrade as some may say, trading a unique identity for something common and even sometimes fake.

[Coercion_Is_Trauma]

Selfhood is not a posture, so all pushing, same or different, makes one fake.

The problem is deep subconscious programmimg that we follow (even the program to stand out is a copy of the programmers) so many think they are being authentic by execuing their programming, because it rakes the least effort, no "pushing". ㅤ

I strive to be sad but i must be careful not to artificially be more sad than required. The most idiotic thing humanity does is fight sadness. Half repress it, the other half acts on it "i am offended and it is your fault". Neither just sits with pain (like christ supposedly). When you do sit with pain, only then can be there a fidcussion of "using one's heart".

[ChicoFromThe305]

Interesting

[Jewelmyth]

I'm generally a girl with changeable opinions; I might like something I didn't like before, but overall I'm the same and I'll continue to be the same. Only some of my thoughts might change; generally, I do what I want. If I want to fart while walking down the street, I'll fart, and I don't really care about anyone 😅 but I don't bother those around me either.

[ChicoFromThe305]

If your farts are terrible then you won't be able to say you aren't bothering anyone 😂

[sage2021]

I don't have to push. I'm just myself and not like anyone else.

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's good lol

[sage2021]

Thank you for the MHO YOU!🙂🧡

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea it was me 😂

[MemeSupreme]

i’d say i’m definitely different lol not 100% obv, altho i feel like that punk side of me tries to rebel against the norm, but i’m naturally into things that are not common


however, i also had a really abnormal childhood, so what even is normal for me is off. i’m still learning what is and isn’t, so i try to conform in that way

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well you are better different anyways, I can't imagine a momo the same as everyone, that would suck 😂

[midnightmoon05]

Chico, you already know what I would say here…

and speaking of… what about yourself… do you push yourself to be different or the same?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Im different and I don't mind lol

[RachyRach]

I push to be myself. Which inherently would be different to others

[ChicoFromThe305]

Probably for the best