How Can Women Possibly Hate Men?

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This was inspired by @TonyMetal___1986 question about women hating men.

Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

I think most women don’t hate men.
But they hate being played.
And when they end up dealing with the wrong man or men, they feel a sense of shame that manifests as hatred.

Basically it’s easier to be a “man hater” in the eyes of other women than it is to be ridiculed for being a sucker.

Phunk_Fenomenon · Accepted Answer

ask feminists that question and watch them write a whole entire library of books on why

Anonymous · Answer

I haven't seen that other post, but one big reason for women hating men is ignorance and negligence/carelessness or rather selfishness I may say.

I've grown up in a way I want to properly understand all life around me. Myself as a human and a man, as well as the woman/female which is another necessary part of my surroundings.

So there are bad parts within human (people in general), as well as bad parts specific or more common in each gender.

For instance, women will jump to conlusions (not listen). I would want to ask a question and say 3-4 words.. she completes the question and answers it.
When that is not what I want, but she still goes beyond posing her question instead of mine, but also goes on commenting and the train goes on..🥴

That's so common in women, and it is not one who has done it with me, and even one woman would do it repeatedly.
It is not something I invented, but out there if you are interested in learning about each gender.

The context in both cases (previous and upcoming) is of a man-woman relationship.

The man is negligent/lazy/careless. Ask for woman experiences with men or sons or brothers. Ask men about themselves too.
What I observed so far is that women would ask the man for something, he starts saying thing like: okay tomorrow, later, wait, do you need it, I think this is enough (as he sees it without your specifics).. etc.

So I say, the woman starts compromising till she at least gurantees that the minimum is there.
Now the woman is not willing to lose all.. so she has no choice but to go with whatever she "can afford" or the man accepts providing. Even when he can give more. 🙁

I found this trait in men to be quite common by nature towards women. And unless they are actively aware of it and working on it, then they just do it.
And I think part of it is because women by nature can sometimes be a little too enthusiastic.. so he just gives her the permission and go ahead, get it done without so much blabbering. She then hates him for weak or poor communcation or less "care" towards her. Or listens to her but does it his way.. which isn't what she wanted.
I guess we are clear enough.

And a common mistake is where any of them don't want to learn about bad parts of the gender to learn how to deal with them. Just want them good already.. like that.
A man is a manager and talks about personal skills and bla bla.. with his wife.. doesn't have any tact or patience. He doesn't want to learn her but wants her to learn him.
The woman is kind and goes beyond for other people, with her man.. (in her mind) he treats her badly on purpose and intently hurts her in every way and couldn't help to accept there are evil/bad parts of a masculine human gender just like there is to anything in life. 😒

For this, each gender gets to hate the other. Miscommunication. 🫠
And gender miscommunication seems to spark so strong and easily escalate, and would be quite foggy and probably get worse as we sit seeing it from our gender perspective and think without properly dealing with it (learning the other gender).

So I hate women as much as I might like them. Even when I understand them, I can still get disgusted dealing with them. Maybe since it is okay objectively cutting another's man pride and feelings, but women need 🙀💁‍♀️ another type of interaction.

Take for instance the statement around the meaning: "You don't understand/are silly. This is stupidity".
A man usually takes it as piece of information, a woman is more prone to take it personal. So there you do the detailing/buildup and maybe phrasing too. 🥱
Surely mistakes happen in both genders, but since the topic is to focus on each gender, then I am highlighting the differences.

That's my opinion.
Please be gentle if you want to critisize.. wait, its okay you can be sharp 😆😛

Maybe I just detailed the experiences when only Gender Miscommunication was enough.

Anonymous · Answer

It's weird for me to think about because i still hear echoes of the pastor reminding everyone that the baby being baptized is born filled with sin...  ㅤ

Anonymous · Answer

Angel was sired when he was 26, when he meets Buffy he is 241 years old -- and dead. Buffy is 15. Even if he was alive, he would be 30. It didn't really hit me until the flashback when Angel was watching - what, 15-year-old? 14-year-old? Buffy at her previous middle school. Falling in love with her then and there had a definite Humbert Humbert vibe. One of the reasons I guess Joss Whedon is considered a sketchy creep in 2026.

Does Angel investigations investigate Child grooming cases?

choco-latte · Answer

As the other comments have said, in some cases they were hurt by one gender and sometimes it just leaves a bad impression on them. It’s sometimes the reason people don’t like a particular race or nationality etc. either, bad personal experiences. Even though of course, not everyone of one group is the same and it’s not right to generalize people… but some people may just subconsciously see it as the face of betrayal or something. In this case perhaps therapy could help them sort out their feelings and develop themselves further.

I don’t think it’s so much a matter of gender as it is of people in general. People are often complicated and no one is perfect, ultimately it’s about the individual.

Stevepro68 · Answer

I think hating anyone on the basis of your personal association says more about you than about what you hate. Man is just a grouping, like old, or lebonese, or gay. It says nothing about any individual. Automatically hating someone just because he is part of a group is generally wrong. Especially when it is a group that person has no choice other than to be in it. It a cheap easy way to make your negative feeling about someone you don't really know seem justified. Now if you say "I hate Paul because he's a Nazi and he killed my sister." That is justified personal and individual to that person.

georgeboy2006 · Answer

People usually base their views on personal experiences. Bad encounters, toxic behavior, or negative relationship history can make anyoneman or woman harbor resentment toward the opposite sex. But that's not fair though, because judging a whole gender based on a few bad people isn't right.

CaptainObivous · Answer

Part of the problem is Social Media, it has convinced women that a minority of men being crappy towards women equals all men being crappy to women, so women default to hating men. Another part of the problem, is women will have a bad experience with a man, and out of spite will hate all men while convincing other women to hate all men.

Anonymous · Answer

Cause men are shitty people. Men even hate each other.

If bob loses his job do you think any of his guy friends go to him to ask him if he is okay? No they talk about If there are any openings for bobs job or if they have the resume to get it.

They could careless about what happens to him after they just want his job.

Most men see each other as competition.

Look at Andrew Tate. He takes the life savings of men who he claimed to advocate for. No one cares if he is going to jail because he is a piece of shit.

That is how men are.

RachyRach · Answer

I guess some women have been hurt by a man and then start hating all men. Not the right thing to do but that's my guess

Karrimurray · Answer

I think the interesting part is that sometimes ‘I hate men’ isn’t really about hating men at all. Sometimes it’s a woman saying, ‘I’m tired of being disappointed, disrespected, or hurt.’ But at the same time, generalizing every man because of the actions of some isn’t fair either. Maybe the real question is:  can you be angry at a group’s behavior without becoming unfair toward the individuals who had nothing to do with it?

Kvass · Answer

Go ask Nikki. Maybe she’ll explain how tolerating being treated like crap just for money builds up hatred in her. Anyway, I have no reason to hate men, but they need to give you a good reason to love them.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Several reasons:  1. Having been victimized and scarred by a man.  2. Possibly envy.  3. A woman can be sexist to an extreme.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

If they do, I'd say they have shit taste in men!!

DonaldDarko · Answer

Take a look at this video. It reveals much. Women don't hate men unless someone teaches them to.

Kassandra1994 · Answer

Its not the guys fault some people are just cursed in love or they are just meant to be single.

AgentG111 · Answer

Depending on what has happened in their life it's pretty easy.

NathanDavis · Answer

there's plenty of reasons for some people, to hate other people... most people just get along well, though

Jackblue · Answer

I could understand that if they were abused. If it was for something less like they were angry at a boyfriend who cheated I wouldn't judge her for having some outbursts, but I would hope she would avoid long-term prejudices.

samael_kmarty · Answer

It's just pseudo feminist who has father issues.
It can be said the same for men who hate strong women.
Also I mean actually successful women not the one who have some money and treat each men beneath them.

Cidknee · Answer

Ehh, sometimes I feel I hate women. Its just a thing. I think how not  all  women are as such and remember how my mom and sisters were and are. I guess its the same for a lot of them.

FreyaRed · Answer

Women like me never hate men, but we don't love them either.

Taranis_Thunor · Answer

Its because they're jealous that men are better than them at everything.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

I  love  men…

_Jenny_ · Answer

@sage2021 You know we don’t hate men

Sickworld · Answer

We all are sick in the head

exitseven · Answer

There really are a lot of real assholes out there.

Alexson_stormzy · Answer

Unstable mentality injunction

Anonymous · Answer

Those women are just gay!

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