Why is this girl acting rude, then chasing me when I pull away?

[rapfan107]

There's this girl I've been talking to for a while but lately her attitude changed and she's been more moody and rude towards me!! So I've decided to distance myself from her since I don't like the way she's been with me lately but as soon I distance myself she started contacting me very often.

[PixieFairyBtch]

She’s too scared to commit but doesn’t mind the company. How long have you two known each other? If you don’t mind me asking~

[rapfan107]

A little bit more than a year at one point ngl we were super close

[PixieFairyBtch]

So was it something over the internet or in person? Cause that also changes things ^^

[rapfan107]

Nah all in person

[midnightmoon05]

“At one point we were super close”

Some information not being shared?
I think you know why ….

[rapfan107]

No why nothing back happened!! We just been busy with work doing our thing before anyone jumps to any conclusions

[midnightmoon05]

Define super close.

[rapfan107]

We used to spend a lot time together, hours!! Tell each other personal stuff etc

[midnightmoon05]

So you see now that is changed… she misses the quality time… what will you do to fix that?

[rapfan107]

Well I don't know!! She just started acting like that and I decided to distance myself

[midnightmoon05]

All the reasons to keep opposite gender respectfully at a distance.

[Abbycado]

She likes the attention but doesn't want to commit.

[rapfan107]

Why would I give her attention after she's been acting like that 🙄

[Abbycado]

Then don't. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[loveslongnails]

In her mind, you're not allowed to reject her, only she can reject you. It's typical behavior for far too many people.

[rapfan107]

Doesn't make sense to me

[loveslongnails]

You're trying to make sense of human female mating behaviors? LOL

[rapfan107]

Yeah 🤣🤣my mistake

[NathanDavis]

how long have you known her for?

[rapfan107]

Like two years

[NathanDavis]

why distance... instead of bringing this up to her and talk about it...

[rapfan107]

And tell her what I don't like your crappy attitude she's a girl man🤣shes not gonna take it well

[NathanDavis]

I mean... have an actual conversation

no need to accuse her, no need to complain, lol

just let her know you've noticed a certain change in the situation and you're wondering why this is happening... you can be more tactful about it, lol

[Anonymous]

It has something to do with that cute little slit between her legs.

[WhitneySnow]

She just wants attention

[Paige2006]

Because she's a Karen!

[rapfan107]

Hmm she's not🙄