Why was I born with so many problems?

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I was born with chronic medical conditions and so many others that affect me. I also have autism and learning disabilities!

I can’t work, I couldn’t pass school. I can’t even follow my dreams. I WISH I WAS BORN NORMAL AND HEALTHY!

I can’t even have kids because my main issue is genetic. And it’s 50/50.

I can’t even find a partner because nobody will want to be with someone with so many medical/health issues. And i’m also short and terrible metabolism so i can get obese easily

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And Especially since i’m a guy, it’s even worse

[Effably]

Sorry to hear it. Life is unfair.

It does not help to wallow, although you have the right to complain.

You choosing to see things negatively is probably half of your issue. As humans our ability to alter our own minds, ane consequently our ability, is significantly tied to how we perceive ourselves. You're making yourself a cripple even if you only have a small limp.

Take the short thing. Yes, it makes weight you put on more visible and each bit counts more. Which could fairly be construed as it being easier to become obese. Although it is a mild exaggeration.

But as a man you could have equally mentioned how easy it is for you, as a shorter man, to build visible muscle and get a great looking physique. Short guys basically have a cheatcode here! They touch weights twice and suddenly they're ripped! I exaggerate, but while each pound or kilogram of muscle is no faster the rate at which the visual change happens is multiple times faster. Good reason most male actors with good looking bodies used to be tiny guys.

You are selectively picking out problems. However justified that may be it will not help you to get to where you, presumably, want to get. Chin up and act. People rarely know what they can do until they try.

[MUSICTOKU099125]

? I don’t have a physique.

I have a low metabolism and I’m sick. I don’t lift weights.

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You don’t know anything. You definitely didn’t think before posting this

[Effably]

Every human has a physique. Good or bad.

I am telling you an advantage of being short is how easy it is to leverage that into good looks.

The point was to highlight how you are choosing to see negatives when positives also exist.

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I am chubby, my condition makes it easy for me to be obese.

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I can’t help that, unless i starve myself

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Also no girls would date guys who are short! And don’t use celebrities as an example because I don't know if you know this or not…but they’re celebrities!!

[Effably]

Which condition? A high or low metabolism, while arguably true, normally has much less impact than say, shaking your leg up and down when sitting still does. Autism often comes with stims. Many of which would counteract a metabolism issue on their own.

And being short isn't that big of a deal. Oh sure, if you are mostly relying on dating apps I fullu sympathize. Must be brutal there. But most women just want a real connection with someone interesting to them.

Not saying you haven't been dealt a rough hand, but if you want things to improve you do have to push through it. One good way being to swap perspective. Hit the gym. See if my comment about muscle building being, visually, faster was true for example!

[Badtobad]

Find autistic and people with conditions like you, there are people like you

[MUSICTOKU099125]

There’s no one like me

[Badtobad]

There are people similar to you

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Not really, nobody seems to understand what i go through

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Everyone has the suck it up and do something about it attitude instead

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Despite there being nothing i can do about it

[Badtobad]

I wish I could be near you

[slatyb]

There's no "why" to much of anything.

[MUSICTOKU099125]

What are you talking about

[slatyb]

You asked why but there's no conscious entity deciding.

[Anonymous]

Bad luck with genetics

[MUSICTOKU099125]

I’ve had bad luck my entire life, no surprise it starts at birth