Are you still being judged for past decisions?

[ChicoFromThe305]

This question was inspired by a random anon, not sure who asked the retired slut question but past decisions don't just affect one person, sometimes they don't just affect the person making the decisions, so I thought this would be a good deep question to ask.

[7Phoenix7]

Uhh I was never a “slut”… but I have been judged for some of my past decisions…

I judge myself for some of those decisions too lol. I think it’s normal to look back and question some of the choices we’ve made. That’s just part of growing and learning in my opinion

[ChicoFromThe305]

I guess we all do learn from mistakes, sometimes those mistakes being someone else's, mistakes are indeed a learning curve but I guess depending on the mistake they can cost someone a lot.

[7Phoenix7]

Yes indeed 👍

[ElenaLena]

Well, I’ve never been in a situation like that myself, but I suppose judging others is a very common human behavior…I can only imagine how difficult and hurtful that must be for someone experiencing it…

[ChicoFromThe305]

I suppose the judgement and the actions are important, I personally wouldn't expect anyone to feel bad for someone that has committed certain crimes and receive judgement but yes judgement is in human nature and humans should learn to channel it better.

[ElenaLena]

Absolutely..

[aceleon]

yes, not slut or sexuality based things but yes, i still don't give a damn.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Lol.

[queenofcardio]

They haven't said anything to me directly, but I can sense their judgment based on their non verbal cues whenever I'm making an important decision, just based on my past experiences

[ChicoFromThe305]

Im sure it happens to many, mostly since some are better than others at hiding judgement, and some are terrible at it, very interesting

[queenofcardio]

Yes exactly

[Kenkebuttery]

Omg christopher.

It was 1 time. In a bathroom. At a bar. In Greece on a full moon.

Let it go already 😭

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's the first time youve told me about that, I'm definitely gonna give you shit for it now, I'm gonna use this to give you a nickname 😂

[Kenkebuttery]

No you won't 🫪

[ChicoFromThe305]

Too late 😂

[Kenkebuttery]

See. I try to be all nice to you. And you go and act all Christopher

[ChicoFromThe305]

Now you are just finding excuses to use my name 😂

[Kenkebuttery]

I don't know what you mean Christopher. Christopher. Why would i Christopher. Your Christopher just to Christopher

[ChicoFromThe305]

Okay sounds Christopher

[Kenkebuttery]

Absolutely Christophered that

[ChicoFromThe305]

What can I say, I'm a Christopher 😂

[Kenkebuttery]

Wait? You're named Christopher. 🫪

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nope, not at all 💀

[Kenkebuttery]

Oh ok. Seems Christopher

[ChicoFromThe305]

They should make a language with my name, this is gold

[Kenkebuttery]

It very addicting 🤣

[ChicoFromThe305]

Christophology 😂

[Kenkebuttery]

Thar would be the study of Christophers🤣

It be Christophernese

[ChicoFromThe305]

Okay now we are forging something here, wow we are good

[Kenkebuttery]

Well if we gonna conquer the world we need our own language and studies

[ChicoFromThe305]

isn't that what we just created here, well started creating 😂

[Kenkebuttery]

I was agreeing. Don't start Christophering with my Christophers

[ChicoFromThe305]

Okay sorry, I'll let you create the language since you like saying it so much lol

[Kenkebuttery]

Thank you

[AngryCarl3]

Only by myself.