Adult women that do not drink, considered unclassy or classy?

[Anonymous]

Adult women that do not drink, are they considered unclassy or childish, or classy and respected?

[astatine]

I don't think not drinking will make you un-classy or childish in any way... it is your lifestyle..
although, conservatives MAY think of you not drinking as the lastest fad, and could be irked... just a hypothesis
Eitherway, don't stop doing what you think is right... if you think it is silly to be intoxicated by a substance when life itself is so intoxicating, it's okay. You are entitled to an opinion...
And just so you know, there are many out there with a view similar to yours... so, be happy!

[Betwyn]

Not drinking doesn't make someone classy or respectable..

their attitude and actions do..

[Asker]

thats what I always thought. I use to drink, but a couple of years ago I gave it up for my own reasons. I'm still the same person I was when I use to drink. But I feel like my bfs family and friends think less of me because I don't drink.

[Betwyn]

You probably make them uncomfortable..

Why did you stop?

Are you vocal about not drinking?

[Asker]

I'm not vocal about not drinking. My boyfriend drinks with me all the time, even when we go out to dinner or just hanging out at home. I have no reason to judge anyone for drinking or not drinking. I personally just stopped because I wasn't a big drinker to begin with, so in my adult life I just decided to cut it off. It doesn't appeal to me, I'm pretty social person, so there's no difference in my personality with or without it.

[Betwyn]

in their head, they probably think you are judging them for it.

[prophecy]

respect.

i have done a lot of drugs in my life but never alcohol. and I couldn't stand a chick who would drink a lot. maybe here and there a few sips. I just can't stand that sh*tty taste and breath.

[Anonymous]

i consider them respectful

[uhaveatextmessage]

Neither. I just wouldn't be able to be with them. I need to be able to drink on occasion with my girl, butttt that doesn't make her unclassy

[Asker]

i don't drink, but my boyfriend does. And that doesn't bother me at all. He drinks with me all the time. He'll order a drink and I'll order a soda. even at home he'll have a beer. It doesn't bug me, it basically just I stopped drink a couple of years ago and felt more at peace for it. Sometime I feel as if his family and friends think less of me for it.

[uhaveatextmessage]

Probably do

[Anonymous]

drinking is just a trend and taste. you can still be a mature and decent woman without drinking. too many ways to be.

[Anonymous]

Neither. Whether you drink or not it does not make who you are.