What does it mean when a guy rests his head on your shoulder?

[saysrae]

So I feel like this is kind of an odd question but once I was sitting next to this guy who I was friends with (who I also liked and sometimes flirted with but nothing more). He just randomly rested his head on my shoulder for a few minutes and than sat back up and was like "sorry it looked comfy" (which he's taller than me so I don't know how that would be comfortable for him). So like could that have meant anything at all? I don't know, I just don't see guys use girls shoulder as a pillow all that often..

[mkc96]

Definitely a sign of more than friendship. friendship is a huge barrier between a guy and girl. Extra physical contact should signal him wanting to break that barrier. I would consider head-on-shoulder to be a slight degree of cuddling, in which case is out-of-bounds for friends.if you don't like it, tell him. If his response is fine, and nothing changes, he obviously didn't mean anything by it. However, if it causes awkwardness, he may have done it because he liked you, and your uncomfortableness would have been a sign you don't like him in return. (which of course would disappointing for him and the distancing between you two would be as a result of him not wanting to make you uncomfortable. Also because he wouldn't be wiling to pursue you if you showed him that you didn't like him the way he liked you.

[schlierkampification]

I would answer, but I can't take my eyes off your profile pic. If I said you're cute, that would be bad because you're under 18. However, I consider my niece cute and she's 4 years old, but that's a family thing. So, I'll just say you're cute and leave it at that.

Kidding. Um, it depends on your relationship with the guy. If you're just friends and you have that kind of touchy-feely thing going which some girl-guy friends have, then I wouldn't think anything of it. If you barely knew him, I would carry a can of mace in your purse. Lol. J/k. But for me, it'd take a few beers for me to do that. I'm not that forward. But if it was a girl I liked more than just friends, that would be something I'd do and I can relate about the tall thing since I'm 6'5".

[Anonymous]

My crush has done this to me three times when we've been alone in my car. It's always when you would normally kiss so own you were dating. Once we were at a drive through window and he leaned over (I'm driving) and laid his head on my shoulder. Next time he's getting kissed!

[ShyScorpio]

My guy friend does that to me all the time but we have a touchy-feely friendship. It really depends on your friendship with him.

[jmoo1710]

depends on where you were. You were alone? he wanted to kiss you probably but does not has the guts to do it directly... he maybe wanted you to... if you where with a group.. it might mean he has friend love for you or he likes you and does not know how to show it. BUT IF YOU GUYS WHERE ALONE MOST PROBABLY HE WANTED TO KISS YOU...

[saysrae]

oh, we weren't alone /: we were at lunch so there were a ton of people

[jmoo1710]

thats a sign of flirt I believe... but a different type of flirt, not like being funny and complementing but like I want to huge you or hold your hand kinda stuff haha

[artfullyliving]

Humans are in need of other humans as a natural state of being and to allow the trust between two people like that is actually not unhealthy at all. It means he was tired, and was tired of holding his head up alone. It may be that he is lonely and wants companionship. Hand holding is also a beginning thing like that. People don't touch much anymore so it is a weird thing in our society to be sterilized and never rest or let your guard down.

[DishLady]

He feels close to you. Guys are visual and build an image in their mind based on something that they find visually attractive. It's why a really tall guy will suddenly nuzzle into a shorter girl's neck, or put his hand on her waist. He's probably been thinking about doing that all day (or however long he was with you)...

[NoOneListens21]

idk..i usually push em off. lol. unless they look way too cute. hahahah.

[Tripz]

No need to make it into a huge deal, the dude wanted to show you he's feeling you.

[Bassoonist4Life]

I don't wanna be rude, but it's his, not "he's"

[Bassoonist4Life]

Never mind sorry

[Bassoonist4Life]

I'll go die in a hole now

[Unit1]

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[RobLovesDemi19771992]

TLDR But it means he likes you and is comfortable around you

[Anonymous]

Flirting. He is trying to get physical.

[Anonymous]

he likes you please don't hurt him

[stormbreaker06]

comfortable