I called her "Weird" and a "Drama Queen"

[Anonymous]

If a girl liked you a lot, but was shy about being in a relationship or cautious etc. and I called her a weird drama queen, would that hurt her?

is she being too sensitive? gawd sensitive people are so sensitive!

[jesshkah]

lol yes that would hurt her.. but she's just a sensitive girl. if you can't deal with that then maybe you should be looking for other types who aren't so easily hurt lol. being called weird is rarely ever a good thing, especially by someone you like, if that dynamic hasn't already been established. my boyfriend calls me weird, but he knows that I can take it, and because he tells me that he likes me for some of my weirdness, and because despite calling me that, I know he loves me because we're already in a relationship. and of course drama queen has negative connotations, and she might think that you don't like her because of that, because "guys don't like drama queens."

[iAmMimi]

Honestly if you were to call me a weird drama queen I would be slightly offended, so yes that might have hurt her. Unless you didn't say it in a rude tone and meant it to be a ha ha lol thing which is not likely.

You should apologize to her, it's hard for some girls to let anyone get close to them, even harder if their shy. If you like her too, respect her shyness (that sounds weird) and let her get comfortable around you, but that is only if you actually like her and see yourself really caring for her.

[Asker]

But from my perspective if I apologize I would have to apologize about every little thing in the future...i don't want to do that. I like her a lot but its stupid for her to be that sensitive.

if she's so sensitive does it mean that she likes me a lot? because if she didn't mind what I said then she wouldn't be so sensitive hence she wouldn't really care?

[iAmMimi]

True, you don't want to be apologizing for every little thing you do, but if she's overly sensitive it's the little things that are gonna really hurt. You don't actually have to say the word sorry do something else, like hug her for no reason or something like that.

And If she's really taking it to heart, it could mean that she really likes you. Think about how she reacts when she's around you.

[Asker]

Thanks Mimi, helped a lot.

[iAmMimi]

you're welcome

[Asker]

hey mimi was wondering, can you tell me why girls like stare at me everywhere I go.

sometimes when I look at them because I feel like I am being watched they look away.

sometimes they look away than quickly look back.

most of the time they are like starring at me for more than a normal time...its so weird. like they are actually starring, I feel like I am being evaluated or something.

[iAmMimi]

Usually if a girl is staring at you it could mean she finds you attractive. My friends stare at guys really long because in their heads their thinking that at some point he's gonna come over an talk to them, because if someone is staring at you you're gonna wanna know why.

There could be a ton other reasons they are staring too, like they think they know you, they're just staring for the sake of staring maybe because of a mole or something etc... But if

[iAmMimi]

But if it's a girl that you normal feel staring at you most an quickly looking away it's probually because they might be interested and find you appealing.

[GGGGGG_unit]

no. if she called you an insensitive jerk and stopped talking to you for a day, would you still laugh?

[Anonymous]

Would you be sensitive if she calls you a jerk for calling her weird and a drama queen ?

[Asker]

i'd laugh honestly lol...