Guys, the one who got away....? do you always miss her?

[Anonymous]

why won't you contact her and how often do you think of her?

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+1 y

wow all of you got hurt by a woman, but I was asking this question because I was hurt by a guy and wanted to know if a guy lets a girl go when he was mean to her would he miss her

[Anonymous]

I don't contact her because she's the one who dumped me for no reason at all. I loved her, she didn't love me back. I don't want to talk to her or think about her again. Loving someone that doesn't love you back hurts. That's why I don't want to talk to her. From that point, I've decided just to go FWB, as it is so much less hurtful. I honestly think a lot of girls don't think us guys have hearts that get hurt. Sorry you had to hear my story.

[indian_empress_91]

*Hug*

[originalmountaindew]

Is it easy for you to find a FWB?

[Opinion Owner]

Not that hard, keeping one as only friends with benefits is the hardest part. Why do you ask?

[Shpongolia]

It's been almost 5 years but I still miss her and think about her from time to time.

I suppose it's because I haven't been in love ever since.

I did however learn a lot from it.

[Asker]

have you tried to contact her?

[Shpongolia]

A few months after we broke up I tried e-mail and Facebook, but she shut me down. I just assumed let her go because I couldn't stand the idea of her being with anyone else.

[originalmountaindew]

Did you unfriend her on Facebook?

[Shpongolia]

No, she's still on my friend list. But I don't use Facebook much at all anymore. I have a strong feeling if I try to contact her again, she won't respond and I'll look like a creep.

[Asker]

u know I can relate and I wish the guy I liked would contact me, esp since the ball was left in his court last time

[ozbangb]

i almost always, the reason why I haven't tried is because she has a boyfriend, but more so the reason is that she stated it to her old best friend "i will never go out with him, not even if he was the last man on earth", she and I still talk, she does flirt with me as I do to her, her boyfriend will be leaving her because he is moving states. I hope this is a fair enough reason why I haven't tried for over a year.

[indian_empress_91]

maybe you should just try... cause sometimes we tell our friends...we will never get back with the person to try and convince ourself and not the friend...when we know very well deep down inside we just wanna be in the persons arms... Try to tell her you never know =\

[ozbangb]

she knows I like her, her and I have seen alot, she is obsessed with her boyfriend, if it wasn't him, it would be another, last year I asked her out 3 different times, the first time she said yes, however I was new, I was at an all boys school and didn't contact anyone, because I was bullied by everyone, so I was shy, I stuttered every word, she broke up with me, saying I just want to be friends, the second time was about 4 months later, I was more myself, I was still shy, so I made a video asking

[ozbangb]

her out, she didn't see so the next day I asked her if she saw it, she said no, she then said, what's it about, so I just said it, would you go out with me, at the end of the year, bout this time last year, my best friend was trying for her, it ate through me that he did, she me asked what should I do, I said he isn't the one for you, she asks then who, I got me, then a couple of months later she find her current boyfriend, she stated that she doesn't think of me like that, I'm now like her gay friend

[Anonymous]

Yeah I had on of those and I bet she regrets that decision. I don't contact her because I have found someone way better looking and someone that actually loves me for me and does not try to change me into something I am not. Plus I have a belief that if it doesn't work the first time it won't work the next time either.

[Lentilsbrah]

I think about her like nearly everyday; but I always have other sloots to fill my boob bank that's why I never contact her. But I did meet her recently (dumped me) and she was ashamed to even look at me when chatting since she is admiring my beautiful aesthetic physique and acts shy and obviously trying not to give her feelings away. Sooo I know I won the breakup + she'll always be keen.

[whoareyou2]

I missed her a lot at first, now not so much because I have other things going on. However, every once in a while I do wonder "What if...?"

[tadpole25]

the one that got away...

i probably think about her maybe once a month for a few seconds and move on

i feel a little bad about it, but it don't let it take over my life.

i can live without her fine

[Tripz]

I don't have one that got away

because I have her :)

[girl2211]

Not a single girl you miss every now & then?(:

[Tripz]

Not at all

I could not be any happier than I am now with the girl I love.

[girl2211]

Lucky girl.. Very lucky

[Tripz]

In reality

I'm the lucky one, thank you.

[girl2211]

If you say so

[Anonymous]

I think many people feel ultimately that it's better the way things turn out in the end

[amameninas]

1. Happily married.

2. Weekly

[Anonymous]

Only when I'm hungry. If there's plenty of fish in the sea I'm happy.

[Anonymous]

Always