I am always attracted to shy submissive boys does this mean I am dominant?

[Anonymous]

I find I just really am not attracted to boys who come after me and are kind of pushy but when a boy is kind of shy and bashful around me it makes me want him immediately and I find it adorable. I usually seem shy myself but I am kinda bossy but not in a mean way.

[Blapsoi]

Maybe? Maybe not.

Dominant is just a label, your actions mean much much more in this.

Do you prefer to get your way? Do you prefer it when your boyfriend does what you tell him to? Do you prefer to make most, if not all the decisions in the relationship? Do you like and expect to make decisions for your BF? Do you prefer and expect your boyfriend to ask your permission for things?

If you answer to any of these is yes, no, or maybe... well, then awesome, but none of them, or all of them may make you dominant...

It's just a label and it doesn't matter. Do what you like and find a guy that likes what you do and you'll be happy.

[Helkor]

Not at all, and sometimes a bossy woman is what a guy needs xD The shy and quiet boys often are like that because they have no experience with being social. That, or they just are shy in general. I am a shy and quiet boy around girls, because I have no idea how to handle the situation, and I have no idea how the hell I got a Girlfriend in the first place. She says that she finds me cute and adorable, so I guess that's why xD Also because I care a lot about how I look, it helps me building confidence :D

[madmisskelly]

I don't think it means you are a dominant person necessarily. I think you identify the shy quiet types as ones who aren't going to be pushy or rude. Personally, I hate pushy dudes because I identify it as them trying to control me in some off way.

[DeepBlue]

I think this just means you don't like pushy jerks. If you want a shy guy so that you can take the lead and have a partner willing to defer to your wishes and desires, then you would be dominant.

[markscott]

It may mean that you are dominant, or it could be that you are just comfortable with guys who are quieter and less pushy.

[timidmale]

You are a Goddess my dear, thank you for existing * kisses your feet*

[Konnour]

You already said you are bossy so yes.

[SimpleGuy27]

Can you pm me?