OK to be girlfriend's slave?

[Anonymous]

I'm with my girlfriend for quite a while now and still thrilled to be. I can't stand arguing with her, since she's the most enchanting thing I've ever met. So when we have a slight variance I hurry to agree with her, and I did well to do that. Most times she was right from the beginning :) However, I was a little mean to her lately. I said she'd talk too much and that I wouldn't care for every damn thing she experiences at work. Well, I think I was a little insensitive as she was a little overworked. Very soon I felt bad about that and wanted to "give in". I assured her that I did not mean to hurt her feelings. She said that it'd be "OK" (not great, but OK) if I'd need some space for my own. But the imagination of having "space" was awful. So I said that I don't want to have space. If anything, I'd want her amazing body to leave me as little space as possible. And I also must have said something like that I'd rather be her slave forever than wasting a minute without her. She first was touched, like "awwww", and then she was curious, like "... really?". Unwaveringly, I confirmed "really!"

Well, she granted me a kiss and it seems this sealed the deal. Things that used to be a question are orders now. Things like getting her something to drink, carrying her bag, putting her shoes on. And I see myself obeying. Obeying without question. I'm so happy to be serving her, I cannot even tell. And I cannot explain why. She is such an amazing woman with such a stunningly beautiful body. I simply love to please her. I feel like it upgrades my whole existence if it's for HER pleasure. Am I right in doing so or am I drifting toward some abstract danger? It just feels SO right.

[Catvshuman]

No you shouldn't serve her like that. Just like women shouldn't cater to a mans every beckoned call. When t comes to disputes, if its not something you know you're right about its OK to give up your fight if you are wrong that's not submitting to her ts admitting when you're wrong. When she is wrong don't let her think she is right bits not doing her a favour b

[Prettygurl12]

Your love language must be acts of service. It's perfectly normal and safe as long as who you are with does not abuse the privilege of your affection.

[Asker]

Thank you. "Your love language must be acts of service." That is so well said. Even more since she is far away from being abusive. I really appreciate your affirmation :)

[Prettygurl12]

As long as you're both happy, it's all good. You can look up the five love languages if you want. Usually people have two that they identify most with.

[Asker]

Gonna have a look. Can't tell how happy I am to experience someone who does not just say "oh, you're wrong". Especially since you're a female being I feel less like being totally unsuitable for women in general and hence for my girlfriend in particular :)

[Kiran04]

Dude, only you can answer that question. Do whatever you want. I could care less if you want to be your girlfriend's "slave". I just don't to hear about it. Do what you like.

[Racez]

You're clearly drifting toward some abstract danger.

In relationship, it's always important to draw your personal boundaries.